So basically, anytime i try to set boundaries with my LTR (1 year)... she comes at me with "well if you want this, i want that." Basically anytime i make my demands, she comes back and says "well i want this too"... If i tell her "Give me your phone", she goes "Ok well let me see your phone" If i tell her "Stop posting your ass on Instagram" she says "Well then you need to stop following sluts on IG" If i tell her to wash my dish, she says "well can you help me?" Or if i demand respect, she gives me the whole "Respect needs to be equal" talk.

You get the picture. She wants equality.

Is it wrong for me to want her to listen to my demands? And not have to worry about her wanting the same in return?
Or is she correct in wanting the same in return?

Thanks!