Description of her:

  • HB7
  • Very nice to talk to, great conversationalist.
  • Empathetic

Short background:

I like this girl. I've been with her for about a year. When I first started dating her, she told me she liked me. I told her I had similar feelings and since then we've been a thing.

My issue:

I have oneitis, correct me if I'm wrong. She has a lot of what I perceive to be red flags. What she does/has done that annoys me:

  • When she professed her love for me, I caught her flirting hard with another guy over Instagram. We weren't a thing, but I still think about this.
  • She was a virgin when I met her, but I found out she used to send nudes to guys online, as well as racy pictures of her.
  • Had a Snapchat when she was younger that she'd post racy photos on (on her story).
  • She still talks to a lot of the guys (over the internet), that she's sent these pictures to. ( Claims they are old friends, hasn't met them before in real life.
  • Mostly guy friends
  • Acts nice sometimes and extremely cold in other times.70/30 ratio most likely.
  • Says she wants to go out and relax with me, then cancels 2 hours later
  • Never initiates wanting to hang out with me(prefers to hang with her beta male friends).
  • Has a particular friend online (she's a gamer), that she talks sexually with, not the biggest issue since he's online, but still annoys me.
  • Disrespectful with her phone replies, but claims it's because it's her typing manner.
  • Many more. She gives me sex, sometimes refuses. She's a great conversationalist and she buys me gifts from time to time. I've gotten to know her background for a while now and I honestly do like this girl.

I want to pursue her, but I'm having second thoughts. What do I do?