After years of finding and understanding TRP, I finally connected the dots to the true meaning of dread.

Long story short, I believe women's sexuality is wired so that they desire penis of a man they want to attract to them. Once this mission is completed, the desire is gone!

My problem is, it worked (for her)! She secured my sperm (2 kids), my attention and my resources (common law marriage). With all that, her lust for me is completely gone.

Are there any strategies to induce dread in a LTR? Remember, she kinda has me by the balls (or not, I'm speaking to a lawyer next week).

What can a man do once trapped so deeply!? Hopefully the fact that I'm not married gives me some leverage (at least I can fuck somebody without her getting the leverage of a fault divorce - but COVID is taking even that off the table).

Please suggest any strategies. Some ideas I have:

• cool vacations without her

• fuck sugar babies

• check if she is entitled to savings / if not, let her now

Key challenge: she can use kids as a weapon against me. i don't want my son to grow up without a dad!