So I've been hanging out with this chick, solid 6 on looks, but she's LTR material in my mind. I spent the night last week, but did not hook up due to period, you know the drill. However, I'm pretty sure she's actually a virgin, based on her personality and some things she's said.

The next morning, as we're laying in bed, she asks me if this means we're a "thing" now. Being the avid TRPer that I am, I agreed and amped, saying she's my wife and I wanted breakfast in bed. I think I may have misread the comfort test as a shit test. This, in combination with the fact that I didn't contact her for several days afterwards may be why she's been exceptionally frosty to me.

I have no problem gaming your average girl, and I know, NAWALT, but this girl is just plain inexperienced, so I think I'm going to have to tone it down. I do want a LTR with her, but I need to maintain frame going into it... which leads me to my question.

I asked if she was free this week, and she replied that she was insanely busy (she probably is, very involved in several organizations). I responded that I didn't like that answer, and today I get a text back saying "Are you still going to be here friday? Maybe we can talk then." I will not be here friday, and I have not yet replied to her.

Now, nowhere have I mentioned getting together to talk. In my mind, this is most likely her wanting to see where this relationship is going before proceeding.

What's the best way to handle this text, and the ensuing talk, assuming it happens this week?