Male friends

Haytch1234 · 2019-11-23T03:26:49+00:00

Dont slow down. It will be the death of you

Polojames123 · 2019-11-23T05:24:32+00:00

Bro, you sound lame....

If you want any friendship that is more than a few 'we went out, blah blah' never talk to that person again, scenario.

You have to go through a 'journey' with someone to build a close, brother type bond(not a best friend bond, but a brother bond... Brother bonds are stronger than a 'bestfriend' bond.

A Best friend Bond- You like the same things, you tell secrets, but you don't tell 'everything' usually they don't see you at your worst, you grew up with each other from elementary, but you really didn't go through 'much' together, but held on due to having to have a person from your 'town' or area etc.....

Brother Bond- You went through some 'ill shit' together, that tested you, and them. But you held on to each other, saw them sweat, cry, go through heck and manage, and you stayed friends. They looked weak in front of you, you didn't judge. There are things that you two do, or say, that no one gets, or understands, but who cares? You and your brother know what's up. You can lose touch, not talk to each other for a while, and you don't think the worst, you don't feel any 'agitation' that the friendship is lost, you just 'worry' about the person, as a brother does. That's the brother bond. They may not be next to you on the podium of your wedding, but if you ever needed them, you know, they'd smuggle your fatass to Mexico etc... that's the brother bond... Not an everyday friend, but a for life friend)

If you want those type of bonds, you need to do shit with people, competition, a sport, or a really hard 'business' thing, where you start from scratch, that's the only way that happens... Trust me, making friends that mean something after age 23 is nearly impossible unless you're in a medical school, law school, or start as an intern fresh out of college at some crazy high-end industry.. outside of that, you're SOL.

My advice, go play Rugby, you'll meet people and their bonds are real... that's your best bet at this age. Good luck.

nothestrawberrypatch · 2019-11-23T13:04:33+00:00

Do not talk about red pill.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-23T05:23:24+00:00

Do the thing and you shall have the power. There's no way to get the confidence in advance. You just have to go and then you will realize you're making it to be bigger than it is. Heck a lot of times when you go out you end up not with the group you came with anyway.

Pretend your friends are coming later and you just got there early. I'm sure their situations were that's probably happened before and you had to operate on your own for a bit.

or for whatever reason you guys got separated etc. I'm sure there has been a time where you have been in the venue operating by yourself before. You just didn't realize it cuz technically you had a friend somewhere in the building.

It's really not that bad. I do it all the time now and often do it sober. I have pulled ONS this way, and met plenty of women. Many will actually respect your confidence of being able to come out alone. Once you start interacting with a woman its so much better because you don't have to worry about tending to your friends or if they met someone. Also know making sure someone gets home etc...

fear is just a four letter word and there's nothing that you should be afraid of in this world. I mean honestly what's the worst that could happen? It's not like everyone in the bar is going to turn around and start pointing at you. honestly people don't care and there will be other people out by themselves. And they will be more than happy to strike up conversation with you..good luck!

kclanton80 · 2019-11-23T04:58:17+00:00

Go alone. It's a great skill to learn and master. Often times you can pull easier, and don't have to worry about babysitting your bros.

Title	Male friends
Author	ceilingsky95
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	November 23, 2019 3:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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