Monk mode weekends are hard and lonely

wawakaka · 2020-02-15T05:35:24+00:00

Get into exercise. walk, lift, run, yoga. this will raise your endorphins. do it when you feel the cravings. endorphins are an opioid and it will lower you depression and also you need for sex and other activities the same way drug opiods do.

you use these pleasurable activities to avoid the hard ship and pain of reality which is what you are feeling now. seems everybody does this these days in one way or another as easily as being addicted to your cell phone. its important to feel the pain of life so that you learn to cope in a healthy way rather than alwasy using some external force to make you feel good.

TangoHack · 2020-02-15T11:32:52+00:00

I dance two "social dances": tango and salsa. It helps me a lot, to avoid depression on the weekends. In addition to that, I lift and try to stick to a healthy diet, as prescribed by TRP.

So here's what I do: on weekdays, I try to pick up girls and arrange meetings with them for the weekends (usually through Tinder, Happn, Badoo and by approaching them in real life: daygame). If I'm successful, I will have a girl or two to have sex on the weekends (and therefore avoid depression and loneliness). If I fail, and there is no pussy prospect for the weekends, I default to "the social dances". They are like a "plan B" that's always available.

By dancing tango, salsa and bachata you get plenty of kino, hugs and laughs with young, sexy and beautiful girls. Female dancers are generally in great physical shape. And if they see that you can actually dance, their mood changes for the better. They give you plenty of attention. Also, you may make some new male friends as well, while you are into the "social dancing" community. Most of the boys are there to pick up the female dancers, just like us.

My point, it's a good cure for the "weekends depression", if you are a single man with no pussy prospect for that weekend.

The investment? It's mostly time, to properly learn those dances. You have to go to a dancing academy for somewhere between 3 and 6 months, to became a decent dancer. But learning to dance is actually very funny. Much better than going to the gym (which I still do). You can go to dancing classes on weekdays, after work. That's how I learned how to dance.

I have been dancing for five years now, and I don't regret it. Like I said, it's mostly to avoid depression and make new friends. Ocassionally, though, you do get to fuck one of the girls, so that's a bonus.

fatbloop · 2020-02-15T12:54:08+00:00

100% monk mode is silly. Monk doesn't mean you can't go out with your friends and meet people. Isolating yourself completely will naturally lead to depression-like feelings.

Go out with your friends and socialize, but don't drink. If anything it'll be a test to see if you can truly stay sober.

And get a hobby that keeps you happy and fulfilled during the weekends.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-02-16T20:21:05+00:00

I used to binge drink with my friends every weekend. I still go out with my friends, to events, but I just drink less (like 2 beers then water), been feeling great.

babban_rao · 2020-02-16T07:49:51+00:00

Study like a dog. I do the same.

Psychoticface · 2020-02-15T20:04:38+00:00

Get a call girl 😁

VisiblePlan · 2020-02-15T03:18:18+00:00

Don't do monk mode unless you legitimately have autism.

Title	Monk mode weekends are hard and lonely
Author	Porlamar
Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	February 15, 2020 3:16 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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