Moving together

berttbeans996 · 2020-10-20T21:22:24+00:00

Wtf lol. 7 months is nothing. You’re still in the honey moon phase.

Just relax and take it easy. I had a honeymoon phase with a woman for 1.5 years, the latter 6 months were complete shit.

If you’re in love with her and get along well together I say move in and take it day by day. Living together will completely change the relationship.

HauntingYam0 · 2020-10-20T21:52:43+00:00

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Meloxian · 2020-10-21T00:26:17+00:00

HauntingYam0 · 2020-10-21T02:18:00+00:00

See you on here in a few years telling young guys not to get married and have kids early.....

Like you are the first person to find out it's a bad idea.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-10-21T12:46:46+00:00

I'm mgtow and wont marry or cohabitate with a women. That being said I have no beef with guys that choose too. My ONLY piece of advise is to date for a minimum of 3 years. A lady can hide a metal illness like BPD or NPD for a year or two max, but by 3 years the gig is up. Most guys can recover from a cheating wife or divorce rape but BPD/NPD is a whole new level of hurt...my 2 cents.. Those are the guys that zero out...

daproest1 · 2020-10-20T21:28:37+00:00

Do it. But move her away. It’s the best thing for your family (because that’s what you’re building, a family). U must be the center of her life. Otherwise other people will eventually, little by little, chip away at her devotion to you. It’s not malicious. Women are herd animals. They care about social stuff. People, their friends, their family, etc. They just want to fit in with whoever they have the most exposure to. This comes from evolution. If they were bad primates, hundreds of thousands of years ago, not likable, not accepted, they’d be killed. They couldn’t survive on her own. That’s where their anxiety and shitty behavior from not belonging comes from. A bad male primate, would still live. And eat. He’d be fine. Which is why men are less social overall, and less susceptible to outside influence. You’re just one person, but make sure you’re the most important person to her. It sounds horrible but it’ll make her happy. It satisfies her primal needs.

Live8020 · 2020-10-20T21:27:40+00:00

Everything sounds workable except the having a child part in the next year. Give yourselves a couple years before you add that to the mix.

Title	Moving together
Author	Tough-Notice-4260
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	October 20, 2020 9:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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