So me and my LTR reconnected last night from the argument we had on Monday. She was very blank in my presence and it was difficult for me to make the situation playful. We talked about the trip to DR and she said she doesn't want me to go anymore because she feels like she's "forcing" me. Then I asked,"Ok, if this is finished let me know and i'm gone". Then she started bringing up shit I've said from the past, pretty much trying to rationalize her feelings for me at the moment. She said she doesn't want to break up, but she needs time to think. She said she has doubts because she feels i'm too "mysterious" and "poor at compromising".

Is this relationship done?

Note: She's been PMSing for the last 3 days before the fight.