Need advice - hostile work environment created by female coworkers

alexwan12 · 2017-12-16T21:02:27+00:00

Go to HR and explain situation. If you don't have HR department, go to your boss and inform him (at least he won't be surprised when comes time to fire your ass). And in any circumstances don't be in room alone with this two chicks, limit conversation with them to minimum, false rape and SA accusations not new in #meetoo era.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-12-16T21:51:03+00:00

Always be flirting with other companies. Keep your resume up to date and start sending them out

kranos33 · 2017-12-17T00:29:41+00:00

Also, communicate in WRITING.....

Send an email to your supervisor and HR about the situation first, then talk in person, so when shit comes to shove you have proof of prior girls trying to manipulate/fake a situation.

IN WRITING MOTHERFUCKER.... <- Can't emphasize this enough.

It has saved my ass in sticky situations *female co-worker playing games with the code review process, and trying to paint me as the evil blocker, while the opposite was true....

AbraKadabratttt · 2017-12-17T06:26:21+00:00

RECORD EVERY FCKING THING. IDC if it's a voice recorder, camera, phone. Do what you gotta do!!! Hell, even get a pair of video recording glasses if you need to. JUST DO IT! Talk to those btches and ask why they're doing this to you or have a friend do it, but in a subtle way, and remember to record.

Rotten_Red · 2017-12-17T04:21:58+00:00

You might want to start a journal and log all of your interactions and conversations with them.

Conor_Niggregor · 2017-12-17T07:10:09+00:00

Get the coworkers who overheard them to put their statements in writing also. take the documents to HR. You'll most likely be getting these cunts fired for this.

HectorHerisson · 2017-12-17T14:10:02+00:00

Need advice - sky is blue and I need oxygen to live.

Seriously though, I read that you wanted to go to HR. Just be careful with that. Often it's packed with self-righteous feminist women who will always side with "the sisterhood". Other than that, the best approach when it comes to female in the workplace is to keep the interactions to a bare minimum, always in view of others (or cameras) and always keep it related to work (not even an "how was your weekend").

PlanetoftheGrapes94 · 2017-12-17T16:17:49+00:00

nuclear option: convince a loyal female friend of yours (one who these 2 girls don't know is on your side) to talk to them about how she wants in on getting you fired. If there is a breakroom where conversation usually happens hide a recording device, maybe an old cellphone, strategically where they might sit. make sure the loyalist coworker knows about and is ok with the plan and only goes to talk to them if they are in close enough proximity to the recording device.

and ta-da, tables are turned and they get fired (probably- if not western civilisation is closer to collapse than I thought man..)

If you can't find a female coworker to help with this, maybe see if a guy who you know which they don't know you are chummy with and explain to him the situation and ask if he could pretend to go over and say like "hey, nightrider is a real piece of shit he did so and so and said THIS to me and if you want I can say I saw grope you on the behind in front of [location]". gotta be creative man give em hell

Title	Need advice - hostile work environment created by female coworkers
Author	night_rider1991
Upvotes	18
Comments	13
Date	December 16, 2017 8:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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