I used to go to the gym with a friend but he pretty much gave up. We had been going for over a year but in the past two months he hasn't shown up once and and I go 4 times a week. Oddly, this has had an odd effect where women in the gym now come up to me and either ask for workout advice, make comments, and generally approach me for one reason or another. One particular girl makes comments like, "It looks like your partner left you" or "Alone again, huh?" I am not sure how to respond except agree and amplify such as, "Yeah, you know how unreliable men are!" This girl is pretty hot, at least 7/10 in the face and 9/10 in the body.

Today a guy I never seen before is following her around like a puppy. She was doing squats, he does bench press right next to her. She does leg press, he does push ups right in front of her. He has a good build but seems goofy following her. I wave to her 'hello' from a distance when she makes eye contact with me but I don't say anything, I am there to work out not pick up. I can not tell if they know each other or not because he keeps talking to her but she seems indifferent to him, not annoyed but not all smiles either. Finally, the new guy leaves and she walks over to me and says, "Well that was odd!" I don't like to talk bad about people, and although it was odd, I just changed the subject, "Yeah. Um, so how are you? How's the new job?" She told me last week she had a new job and today I learned she is an attorney, which I think is kinda cool. Again, I am not trying to pick up, I am in a relationship, but I do enjoy the new found popularity with the ladies of the gym. One day last week she saw me coming out of the locker room and I was in uniform, I am a fire fighter. She seemed impressed, "Oh, you are a fire fighter?!? I did not recognize you dressed!" To which I replied, "Did we share an intimate moment that I forgot?" She turned red, smiled, and said, "Well, I mean, like dressed not in gym clothes".

I try to use RP philosophy and make myself believe I am higher SMV than I am but the reality is people often compliment me on my body, but never on my face. I am going to guess I am 7-8 in body and maybe a 4-5 in face. Plus I am kinda short, 5'8".

Using RP philosophy I am trying to improve myself. Although I am in a relationship, I want to keep options open. Not plates per se, but the skills necessary to acquire if needed. Career is good, physique is good, confidence is a bit low over facial aesthetics and height, need to acquire game, wit and charisma.

Tl;DR Looking for RP advice without a clearly defined question other than how to be more RP than I already am.