Need some feedback (approach and results)

DecrepitDelineation · 2016-11-03T04:59:26+00:00

I have developed enough rapport with this girl I am interested in to finally ask her out and did so earlier today. This girl is a solid 9 so I was surprised when she said she'd love too. So here arises my dilemma; my approach was ubër beta and I dont know if shes just being nice or not.

You don't need to worry about why she said yes. It's a waste of your mental energy. Obviously she said yes because she's attracted. You can idly wonder how much she's attracted, but it doesn't matter. Focus your thoughts on how to improve yourself and how to make the concrete improvements happen.

Well I had found this card and wrote her a note/letter and ended it was a poem, she graciously acceped it even though I am pretty sure I was speaking gibberish as I handed it to her.

I hope you realize this is cheesy as heck.

Buuuutttt, lest you get too neurotic, realize the effect it had on her. Girls have emotions. Here's a guy making her feel something. You may have been speaking pig latin, but she wasn't emotionally even keeled either. You made her feel something. So that's good.

So my approach was rather lame and I am worried that I have sabotaged myself.

I hope you have an abundance mentality and don't get invested in the outcome with this chick. If that's the case, you won't get caught up in the outcomes with her. You'll take your success as a sign of progress and improve. Whether or not this chick wants your D doesn't matter if you're using this as an opportunity to improve yourself and your game and use this as valuable practice.

AlfredApple · 2016-11-03T05:07:44+00:00

That was hard to read.

You probably already know that all signs are pointing to her assuming she is simply putting you into orbit. However, let's assume the best and say this girl likes you. Go to the art exhibit, flirt, push/pull etc. At the end of the date you must go for a kiss. I don't give a shit how nervous you are, that is the only way to find out what this girl thinks of you. If she is attracted to you, she will kiss back. If she shies away, it's time to move on mate.

Well done for having the balls to ask her out regardless, as cringe worthy as it was!

Arschrapine · 2016-11-03T05:45:40+00:00

I winced when you described how you asked her out, but, she obviously was able to look past your beta approach and see something alpha and attractive behind your naive blue pill front.

Sometimes a girl finds a genetic alpha who doesn't know they are; these girls feel like they've hit the jackpot. They get all the nice genes and good looks while they can manipulate him as much as they desire.

Perhaps she thinks you might be such a naive alpha. If you look good and are tall and strong but your game is blue pill she might have mistaken you for this kind of man.

If she said yes it's because she wanted to. I garantee women don't give a fuck about being nice and will and do shoot down men all day for not being hot enough.

So you succeeded in spite of your poor approach.

But don't fuck up the date. Use kino and other techniques while judging how she responds to them. Escalate but in a naive manner that makes her think you are confident but not experienced.

If she doesn't respond positively then it is because she is recruiting you as a beta orbiter. Drop her instantly and hard.

Title	Need some feedback (approach and results)
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Date	November 3, 2016 4:20 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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