"Never Get Married". A Possible Exception...?

DerDroogie · 2019-09-30T04:03:58+00:00

Greets from Manila. That shit won’t fly here. Her women friends will gang up against your lazy lifestyle and she’ll drop you fast and hard.

I had to bail a team member of of prison today as under local law ‘if your wife makes a financial demand of you and you refuse it, you can go to prison’ under the violence against women act (wtf right?)

Also with so many hot Asian girls here dying to get into your pants, you’ll do it, and she’ll flip her shit if she’s the sole breadwinner in the family.

So yeah: NO.

Bornagainslayer · 2019-09-30T04:00:12+00:00

Depends on the laws of that country. The advice here to never get married first and foremost is designed to stop men from being divorce raped. If that is not going to be a problem in the country where you will live then great. Secondly, once a woman has secured your commitment she will begin the process of withdrawing sex, so assuming you accept that and are prepared to find other pussy while keeping your ‘arrangement’ then I can see no issue.

But make no mistake, if you are considering this marriage for any other reason then how it will benefit YOU then you should not do it. A divorce will fuck up a kid way more than if his parents were never married.

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-09-30T04:08:39+00:00

Make sure you look up Briffault's Law and be sure that having her work mostly is going to hurt or help you before going through with this plan. Also I'm a little bit skeptical with Hypergamy that she'll maintain attraction to you if she's making 100% and you're making 0%

I just see some potential pitfalls in this line of thinking

BeeBopJoe · 2019-09-30T04:49:46+00:00

Thats not a good idea, don't depend on anyone for ur money. It would be a different situation if you had enough money saved up or had some sort of passive income to do that, but relying on a woman for stuff like that is extremely idiotic.

Trust me, shes eventually going to lose respect and attraction for u if u become a freeloader.

MR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2019-09-30T03:56:27+00:00

You want to marry an Asian woman and then stay at home while she works?

Dude, she'll get tired of that shit pretty fast. I'm also a white guy in South East Asia, I've seen a lot of white/Asian marriages and your plan simply sounds like total delusion to me. Just my 2 cents.

TRP rules are even more important in this part of the world.

vicious_armbar · 2019-09-30T05:02:55+00:00

Of course things are great now. She's trying to sell you something. If you're American your kids will get US citizenship regardless if you marry her or not. Assuming that you do the paperwork. Don't be dumb. This is a disaster in the making.

johnbillguy · 2019-09-30T06:37:35+00:00

No dude. Don't forget women do not care about what you have done for them in the past. They only go by how they feel today and what is happening today. Just because you gave her that loan in no way means she is going to support you from now onwards. That shit won't fly with her - she will not be turned on by a man who is making nothing for the family and will ultimately resent you for it.

fartt123 · 2019-09-30T05:20:10+00:00

what?

you a fool. You don't know what she finds attractive about you. she is your oneitis. there is no one.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-09-30T06:16:16+00:00

You: "Isn't there some magical exception that applies in my case?"

TRP: "No. There is not."

btrpb · 2019-09-30T07:47:41+00:00

OMG watch her fanny dry up when she turns into the provider and she's got you in wedlock.

Yashugan00 · 2019-09-30T08:19:25+00:00

Oh you have it so good, of course by marrying you can keep things exactly the way they are forever. Said every man ever. Women change after marriage. It's like a light and a dark side of the moon. You have been forewarned.

Title	"Never Get Married". A Possible Exception...?
Author	PlasticRedditor
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	September 30, 2019 3:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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