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New potential plate, attraction obvious, some level of flake

trpthrowaway2day

October 29, 2014
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Title New potential plate, attraction obvious, some level of flake
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trpthrowaway2day

Upvotes 2
Comments 16
Date October 29, 2014 2:11 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2kock0/new_potential_plate_attraction_obvious_some_level/
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Dealing with my ignorant feminist sister -Xmas

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[–][deleted] 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

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[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

She did tell me to come by though so would that be in her frame? Also a long winded explanation of why she didn't go when I didn't ask for one or contact her at all makes me think I still have a great shot. Haven't replied to it tho and most likely won't

[–]sigmared821 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't next her. She seems genuinely interested, and even invited you to her place. Wait a few days then pick your 2 favorite beers and ask her which one you should bring over. Escalate, close, leave.

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Positive, concise, and simple. I like it, feel like I should wait a week tho.

[–]sigmared821 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Either way. One of the best pieces of advice I've read on how often/soon to text a chick was "lead an interesting and fulfilling life and text her when you're bored." I don't think specific timeframes are as important as much as maintaining a frame of "my life is already awesome, but I'd kind of like to add you as an accessory to it."

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh man sad update...convinced her to come over to watch a live streaming concert. Tried to escalate...had minimal luck. She took a cab home. I think I wasnt agressive enough and honestly I'm getting a little frusturated and depressed getting back in the game after this 2 year mono gamy bullshit. I essentially now have to next this chick and this other chick who I am obsessed with and even fucked but had bad sex wit (and was getting ignored by after). Super into both these girls but made small mistakes and now I just think the TRP thing to do is next. Getting new prospects is frusturating. I started lifting this month so I'm thinking monk mode augmented with fleshlight is my best bet.

[–]sigmared820 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Damn man, well at least you tried. I see two options at this point. Either meet more chicks, casting a wider net, or monk mode. Especially getting out of an LTR monk mode might not be a bad idea. Get comfortable with being alone again, kill that neediness and outcome dependence.

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol and today she texts "so you thought I was coming to your house to hook up with you?" she's getting a hard next and no response. My band has a show sunday she booked for us so I'll see her there but I will largely be ignoring her. This bitch is nuts.

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Though sunday would be ideal, ha

[–]AskTRP Endorsed Contributorbicepsblastingstud0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My first thought is to go NC until she contacts me again.

Probably the best bet.

I could catch her off guard by visiting X at his house soon, but that seems a little risky.

I'd give it at least a week.

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks everybody

[–]tombreck2 -5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

i'm on a tight budget right now

You think if Dave Grohl invited her out that she would tell him the same excuse?

[–]sigmared822 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm not a huge fan of the "Brad Pitt/whoever test". None of us are that high status and expecting women to treat us like that is retarded. Besides, even if she wouldn't flake on That Guy at first, she would eventually shit test him. They can't help it. Women will shit test any guy at some point. In fact, she might shit test the famous guy harder, at least after getting her fuck opportunity, because she expects even more out of him.

Stop nexting every chick who doesn't jump on your cock immediately.

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If I had wheels I'd be a wagon

[–]sigmared820 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Would you hammer in the mooornin?

[–]trpthrowaway2day[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Questionably relevant, wasn't her actual excuse

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