New years eve

vverons · 2018-12-31T15:32:39+00:00

FYI don’t put too much pressure on yourself for nye. It’s just another day,

cant__find__username · 2018-12-31T16:25:14+00:00

I have the same issue.

The reality to this is that there is no answer that we are looking for. Just doesn’t exist.

Everyone will say bars and clubs. Just go out there and meet people. Make new friends etc. but it’s not as easy as it sounds. If you walk up to a group of guys they’re most likely to chat with you but the vibe presents that you are a foreigner/loser/not one of them. It feels a little weird specially 5 minutes into it when the conversation turns back on them talking about a memory you have no idea of.

I posted on here regarding going out alone a while ago. Got some great responses. But at the end of the day the failure of having a group of people around me is no one else’s fault but my own.

What helped me the most, is understanding that there is no answer on “where” to go. Go anywhere but go early. Go out early and start conversations with people (I only do women). Key is to find someone or a group that you feel can hold conversation throughout the night. Otherwise immediately try another. The reason going out early matters more than the location is that if 3 girl/groups dont workout, now you stand out and is best to change locations to try again. Time here will buy you more chances.

Something im still working on myself. Not sure if that helped but that’s my experience and what has worked for me.

witchcoin · 2018-12-31T15:03:13+00:00

Just go out. Clubs and bars will be packed on NYE, you'll find people to shoot the shit with almost immediately.

Stokestix · 2018-12-31T17:16:59+00:00

Society made you think it's some special day where you have to do something special. The truth is it's just another day. Do whatever the fuck you want.

throwitdownman · 2018-12-31T17:38:06+00:00

For me, my easiest lays are on New Years Eve. Highly, highly recommend bars and clubs if you want a plate, or a one-night-stand.

You have to push through crowds of people, and drunks, and drama every sidewalk, and long lines into the clubs. The payoff is once you get in, you can literally find a person who is DTF in 20mins. This is because girls usually get in quicker, so they’ve been drinking/bored for a long time. By the time you get in, they’re primed and ready for a stud to swoon them away.

The unfortunate thing is if you live in a big city, it will be hard to get transport. So have a plan of how to get to the club, and back to your place, in as seamless a way as possible.

xNightly · 2018-12-31T18:56:15+00:00

For me, I stay at home chilling and reflect upon the previous year, the good and the bad and how I can make my next year even better. I don’t see the point of getting pissed drunk just because it’s the start of a new year

[deleted] · 2018-12-31T21:16:13+00:00

Living in bumfuck rural America atm, probably just gonna read, study Spanish, and sleep like a fucking rock (did bouldering today). This is all in context though, because I know I won't be here for long and it's valuable downtime before I transfer to a big school and actually have parties to go to. But if you have woods, go to them. They're great for introspection, just watch out for poison ivy.

trp28287 · 2019-01-01T01:09:28+00:00

Trust me, at 11:30pm just go to the place where the best fireworks are and stay there until midnight. I did that (live in Europe) and didn’t regret at all. Was a lot of fun, especially watching some refugees do retarded shit with the fireworks lol

icecruzader · 2018-12-31T21:20:57+00:00

I'm staying in and meditating through three NY, setting goals and intentions. Bars tho, if you have a regular place go there.

Korque_3 · 2019-01-01T06:53:15+00:00

I mean if u wanna spend it alone go to some parks or whatever take some walks and grab some inspiration.

Title	New years eve
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Date	December 31, 2018 2:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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