Not getting hard when needed

mrmaldoror · 2019-04-10T14:35:12+00:00

Start whipping your dick out at the urinal until you feel confident.

FirstLastMan · 2019-04-10T15:03:48+00:00

Hello fellow anxiety bro. First, it happens to the best of us. But since it seems to be a chronic issue, let me ask:

Do you have morning wood
Does porn make you hard
Do you refrain from jerking off too much
Do you lift weights, have a decent diet

If you answer "yes" to all of the above, it's probably rooted in anxiety. You have self-confidence issues, and unfortunately the only fix is the long slow road of getting the fuck over it by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. Not just with women, but people in general. I was the biggest manchild until I was 30. I couldn't even make a phone call without shriveling up and fretting over whatever I might say wrong. I got a job where I was forced to take a lot of calls and deal with people, and now a few years later I give zero fucks what people think of me. Confidence is "fake it til you make it", but you damn well better be laying the groundwork for true confidence while you do this. What I'm trying to say is stop reading this bullshit and hit the gym you pussy

If you answered "no" to any of the above, well, get your health together and stop jerking off you pathetic monkey.

MattyAnon · 2019-04-10T16:06:26+00:00

I couldn't get hard when she could see my dick.

light off

ck. Since my young teen years I had a problem with being nude and I still can't pee when people are next to me, so I think this might be the reason. How do I fix this?

shy bladder not relevant.

how to fix: learn to take it slow, don't forget to breathe, focus on the girl rather than your penis.

boy_named_su · 2019-04-10T17:59:27+00:00

Lift
Cardio
Nofap
Sleep
Try panax ginseng and citrulline malate
Fuck hotties

SimplyFishOil · 2019-04-10T18:42:14+00:00

Are you focusing on yourself or her? Cause I know when I see a girl naked in front of me my intentions are to fuck her, not focus on whether or not she can see my dick

RX0II · 2019-04-10T14:39:22+00:00

Quit porn, quit jerkin' it, try to relax as best you can. Some guys find it relaxing to tell their partners that they're a little nervous, and most normal chicks will be like, "Don't be!"

falconiawillfall · 2019-04-10T14:56:27+00:00

This looks like some deep-seated issue only therapy can solve

SemperPrimus · 2019-04-10T16:26:51+00:00

Get a script for viagra or cialis. Idea is to fuck a few times on the pills and build your confidence up. Then you can stop the pills

Title	Not getting hard when needed
Author	boredathome19
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	April 10, 2019 2:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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