I've been spinning this plate for about 1.5 months now and things have been great for the most part. She's been wanting to be "official" and label me as her boyfriend since we're both exclusive but I'm not down for that.

Last night when we were hanging out, a random guy approached me at Barnes and Nobles and we started chatting about music while the girl was next to me. He says something about her being my girlfriend and I just say "she's okay." Later on in the night after we fucked, she asks me if I'm ashamed of her and I obviously don't fall for her comfort test. She then begins talking about how she wants us to be official but I just tell her we have a good thing going and I don't want to label anything.

After everything is over and we talk a little, I drive her home in silence and I tell her straight up "I don't want to hurt you, so if you don't want to see me again that's fine." She tells me she doesn't, so I say ok and leave.

An hour ago she texts me asking to hang out as if nothing happened. I understand TRP is amoral, but I don't want to intentionally mislead or hurt anyone so I'm not sure what's the right course. I'm stuck between three options:

Hang out with her and act as if nothing happened and when the day comes I leave her I tell her I told her what she signed up for

Tell her I don't want to hurt her and if she's fine with what we said yesterday

Straight up ignore the text

Any advice is appreciated. I don't have oneitis, I'm ready to drop her whenever but I know these sorts of things happen all the time.