Not used to Bumble, advice?

bluefingerblue · 2018-06-02T15:30:55+00:00

She just doesn’t want to do Sunday. Double text her and say you can’t do Sunday anymore but let’s grab a drink Thursday night. Keep it simple on the first date. She was also nervous about salsa dancing (aka doesn’t want to go) and that’s a lot of time commitment and investment for someone you might hate in person. Salsa dancing is a good second date idea. First date is drinks or coffee.

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-06-02T15:31:00+00:00

Arrange something for later in the week, but tell her to be at X place for Y time and bring/wear Z as appropriate. Don’t be wishy-washy or ask her if she’ll come.

I’d say there’s a low probability of flaking from those responses.

HaywoodJablome69 · 2018-06-03T05:42:04+00:00

I use bumble almost exclusively, Im 45 so who knows based on your age.

That convo sounds flaky to me. Girls who are into me will meet quick if I pressure a bit. Im not talking chicks with kids generally as I do my best to avoid those. Also just say "Im going to be here" on X date (usually 24 hours or less) and you'll be surprised how many just will show up. Chicks aren't as fucking busy as they pretend to be.

RedSkeller · 2018-06-02T17:25:57+00:00

You're good

htbf · 2018-06-02T22:38:07+00:00

Call her.

Title	Not used to Bumble, advice?
Author	thowaay
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	June 2, 2018 3:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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