Hi all, In the process of swallowing TRP, after using what I am learning on a girl I have oneitis for, we began fucking. Background, I met her a bit over a year ago and I got friendzoned hard. Spent most of a year putting her on a pedestal and just generally being her emotional tampon.

From Jan we began fucking and we both loved it, similar kinks and drives. It was great. Though she doesn't want to be in a relationship, so essentially I am now an emotional tampon and a sex toy... When it all began I told her that it will end one of two ways, we progress into a relationship or it ends and I don't see her again/move on. A few days ago, she ended our arrangement (because some of our uni friends found out, she doesn't want to be seen as a slut to them), I told her again about the 2 ways it was ending. Now it is likely we will fuck again, but what can I do to help progress into a LTR? I know I have a problem with putting her on a pedestal and turning down her requests (simply because we love scuba diving and have a great two way friendship, each others best friend).

Today I called her and said she should come around to mine to fuck, she turned it down (not in a good mood, be it our situation or something else, don't know) but on the call I was short and to the point, she asked if I was angry with her, my reply, frustrated, annoyed and a little angry. conversation ended shortly after that (I'm teaching one of her labs at uni on tuesday), no chatting etc.

she says she feels like she will be settling for me when she is a 6-7, except I don't think I have ever told her she isn't perfect.

Anyway, I'm rambling now. Any RP tips or advice on getting back in control?

edit: words.