Oneitis broke up with bf

JLipsius · 2016-12-07T18:09:20+00:00

No, don't see her. She wants to use you as an emotional tampon.

Additionally, delete her number and never ever respond to her.

atticusfinch1973 · 2016-12-07T18:29:53+00:00

I'd say you have a shot if you make it very clear that you want to fuck her. Invite her to your place and hit on her - hard - maybe she's looking for a sympathy fuck.

If she hasn't seen you in a while you have a shot if you look better and can escalate properly. I say go for it.

Don't by any means meet her anywhere else or let her vent about anything. That guy no longer exists.

1NV0K3R · 2016-12-07T20:22:20+00:00

I disagree with most responses here.

I would decline her offer to hang out, because yes it is essentially a ploy to make you her your emotional tampon. But this is because that's the only way she knows you.

Decline the offer, but ask her to do something fun on your terms, that you'd ask a plate/tinder date.

If you can make it fun/exciting and shatter the omega image, you could get a rebound.

But this is pretty advanced so I wouldn't recommend the average person to go this route.

Mecha75 · 2016-12-07T18:26:53+00:00

she broke up with her bf and could do with some cheering up

What this means is that she needs a baseline to validate herself. Being dumped by someone her hypergamy rated higher value has her looking to reset where her value is.

Best option is to ghost, next best is to pump and dump. no other option should be considered.

1Maverick1 · 2016-12-07T19:48:47+00:00

If you haven't been bangin side hoes on the side it's probably a bad idea. The only way this would work is if you are already smashing other ladies and this one gets that sense. Otherwise, your little bitch self will show up and probably ruin the night. It does sound like she wants a rebound fuck, but only by some dude who knows what he is doing.

blackedoutfast · 2016-12-07T20:06:38+00:00

just send her a dick pic. extreme polarization. there's a 0.1% chance she will get horny and start fucking you and a 99.9% chance that she will stop hitting you up to be her emotional tampon every time Chad Thundercock dumps her. but either way solves your problem.

EntitledChadJThunder · 2016-12-07T20:10:16+00:00

Dude, this is for your own good: block her and don't ever talk to her again.

nummas · 2016-12-07T20:19:04+00:00

Put on your most white outfit, as you will be her emotional tampon.... Or be a man and Ignore her and get on with your life.

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-12-07T22:35:10+00:00

Be sexual, make intentions clear, but subtle. If she resists, you have your answer

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-08T03:12:05+00:00

No don't see her. Tell her you have other plans. You haven't improved in any way, she'll see you the same way: A sexless object, like a lamp.

fnordsnord · 2016-12-07T18:43:22+00:00

Your best move is to not respond and to delete all of her contact information. Guys who are hung up on The One when The One is not hung up on them never do well.

If you're not going to listen to that, invite her over and escalate. Make it absolutely clear that you are into her, and that this isn't just "friends hanging out."

Odds are good you're going to get "I love you a friend, but I'm not into you like that. Let's Just Be Friends."

edwardhwhite · 2016-12-07T20:17:02+00:00

1.Make plans for tonight with a friend who is less attractive than you at some place where there will be women, say a bar. 2.Tell her you are not very good at comforting people dealing with breakups and that sort of thing. Say you might be able to have a drink but you think her girlfriends are probably better at giving break up advice to women. 3. If she presses to hang out, say she can join you and a buddy. Then game other women while at the location with a friend. 4. Keep your eyes out for IOIs from her.

Title	Oneitis broke up with bf
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Date	December 7, 2016 6:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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