Hey RP. Long time follower. Looking for some help with a tinder profile/messages, as well as game tips in general. First, what I'm good at: I have strong boundaries, and Have no issues with abundance mentality. I always sexually escalate on a date. I just go for the kiss.

But I completely suck at initiating and getting to the first date. Looking back at my openers and messages they seem pretty BP. My Okc and tinder opener: I got you flowers 🌺🌹🌼. I get a response about 20% of the time. They say awe thanks, and I ask how their weekend was/ if they want to go rollerskating. Direct about a date or random question. I get a response about 10% of the time.

I have no idea what to say in openers/conversations. I'm introverted and very rational with how I approach things. Good at math, and like step by step instructions on things. Any helpful vids, threads, websites would be helpful.