Is anyone getting openers beyond 'hi' or 'hey'?

I'm just curious as to where I'm fitting on the scale. I haven't put much effort into the profile yet. I am getting matched at least but the investment from the matches only seems minimal. Edit:

I would like to clarify I am not looking at how to respond I have that figured out fine. I'm looking to understand how much more work to t into myself/ my profile and how close I am to the point where the women are doing the pursuing. I have had good success recently with an in real life woman that is now pursuing me hard to the point where I suggested us having an event together and she came back saying that would get in the way of our fucking time. I also have a couple others in real life pursuing but they aren't in the same league as girl #1.

I'm not getting that level out of Bumble yet and need to put more work into it. To the point of why Bumble / tinder. It's pure time and availability my hobbies work and parenting keeps me from coming across good options that often.