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| 1 | Now that I finally have a girlfriend, I'm finding myself with a LOT of free time. How do I spend it?It's relevant - has to do with the "after" once you've seduced your partner | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Now that I finally have a girlfriend, I'm finding myself with a LOT of free time. How do I spend it?How ??? Its a lifestyle question after you've "seduced" your partner | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Beta male triying to not believe in the Red PillI think what the Red pill fails to understand is that context is also important. If you're working for a tech company and your interests are more introverted such as gaming or reading, you'll attract women that VALUES that, not your average club girl the red pill people think is the ideal woman lol. Yes some parts of the red pill are true such as women preferring leadership in men or confidence. But it's not as extreme as the red pill makes it out to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?been watching her vids for over 10 years now! | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:21 PM |
| 5 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?Read any romance novel. The IDEAL would be someone who is BOTH a "lover and provider". That would be the ideal - someone who is strong, who can lead, and yet can still provide support, and care for her (so they're not totally unrelatable/distant). What is also underlooked, is what is important TO HER (and her lifestyle, values, etc.). Context is important. One thing I find quite funny is that in the Yoga classes I go to, most of the girls don't check out the 6'2 jacked and handsome extroverted g… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?Yes! | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had successful dates with girls who didn't give their number to you on an Online Dating app?Good advice! will try it next time. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Well I do pay for some of the memberships because you're able to run crazy volume that way. This doesnt' represent a majority of people on this thread I'm assuming, but many of my friends eat and breathe cold approach lol, few of them help out on RSD boot camps and stuff. so when they hear about online dating they scoff at it- but yes I totally agree with you game is game!! | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Advice on cold approachingFirst off, congrats on the approach, most guys don't even do that, to begin with. Also, does the place you daygame at have LOTS of women (similar to a night club)? If not, don't approach - even the top PUA instructors like RSD tyler don't wander around the day time looking for girls or even bother going to low density places. Reason being, is you want to build MOMENTUM. If you approach one girl, it might be 20 mins before you see another and you'll be stuck in your head. You'll also give off des… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to be a super fun and cool dude when hanging in group and be boring when alone with someone ?You don't need to be an over-the-top fun guy. Since you're in school, think of the popular guys in your school (that girls check out). Most likely, they're actually just chill, laid-back guys that crack jokes here and there but aren't a goofy clown. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!I agree with you 100% man!! I've slept with 70 to 80 girls just off online while only 20 girls in real life (from night clubs, bars, school, work , etc.) It's honestly a "cheat code" but most OG pick up artists will say ohh it doesn't count. But at the end of the day you're still interacting with a girl, leading her, and sleeping with her (same things you do in cold approach). The only thing online dating lacks in obviously is the actual mechanics of approaching strangers which can easily be sup… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How can I get much hotter girls on online dating? I get quantity not quality.Good point!! I need to start doing in person approaches more I'm thinking. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:08 PM |
| -3 | How can I get much hotter girls on online dating? I get quantity not quality.Well on these apps you can actually SEE their profiles so they're definitely on here. The question is how do I match up with them! | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 11 | Rant: I don't see the point of doing night gameIf you *actively* practice pick up (i.e approaching girls you've never met), night game is a BLESSING. But if you casually go out 1 or 2 nights with your buddies talk to 2 or 3 girls and go home, night game does indeed suck. Most "regular guys" meet women through their social circles or the occasional online dating lay. What pick-up artists do well is that they make it into a LIFESTYLE so it's enjoyable. The OG pick up artists actually went out SOBER, didn't drink or do drugs, and actually got s… | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Did people have an “abundance mentality” 20 years ago?It’s definitely doable but also requires a bit of work. I personally use Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble (I used to use way more apps but I found these 3 are the most effective, so I narrowed it down over time). I have professional DSLR photos taken of me (paid a photographer). I think what makes my profile stand apart is that I have a certain IMAGE that I’m going for. Most guys aren’t very intentional about their profile, they throw a random hiking photo or selfie but it’s far better to cultivate an … | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Did people have an “abundance mentality” 20 years ago?Oh wow very cool to hear!! Looks like not much has changed in the last 20 years then hahaha | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Smallish (~300 people) festival game - optimal strategy - anyone experienced with this?I think you SHOULD approach everyone BUT keep it chill and friendly. This will raise your status, as people observing you will think you're a popular guy. Just by you approaching enough people, there'll be some girls that'll just throw you some signs they're interested in you. Just go after these girls, the rest that are neutral or unreceptive just be cool with. By doing this, you're safely going after the girls who have expressed interest in you (which will always happen if you approach enough)… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Why does this girl plan other things after our dates?Ahh yes, this has happened to me a few times! From my experience, this usually happens if the girl isn't that interested in you and/or if you have come across a bit too strong (this one is usually more the case) and she needs an easy way to back out. I've had girls make out with me, and smile (just as you described), then go to the bathroom for a long time and come out saying OMG my friend has XYZ emergency and I need to leave, or my bestie's just got dumped and I have to be with her tonight, or… | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?How are you not getting laid online? It's SUPER easy. Assuming you're not super unattractive, if you spend some time getting DSLR high quality photos (pay a photographer), a good bio and "vibe" of who you are, and some basics of texting, you should be able to go on atleast 1 date a week (when I did it more often it was 3-4x a week). These dates have a MUCH higher chance of converting to a hook up because the girl has already spend a lot of time preparing to meet you and investing (as opposed to … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Being overly direct in Online Dating - how do some guys do it?I don't think I'm model material but not ugly either: https://ibb.co/6BY7z9q .(my main profile photo) So I wonder how attractive I need to be to pull of those more direct like lines. The rest of my pictures show fun party pictures, activities, taken with DSLR photos so pretty high quality. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Yes I agree!! ^^ Meditation is part of my life path so that's why I do it. However, even if you do want to meditate to get better with women, when the timer goes off before you go out, your thoughts shouldn't be around women anyways. Rather, you're focusing on your breath, third eye point, inner body sensations, mantras, or whatever else you've chosen as your object of meditation. | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!I use Insight Timer everyday! love it! | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!I think the marketing/hype of TM is awful but part of TM that works is the one pointed focus on an object which is a vital step in meditation (it's called Dharana in the 8 limbs of yoga). You can choose to repeat a mantra and just focus on that, focus on your third limb, focus on your breath, focus on loving kindness .. .there are tons of options !! I personally like vipassana style practices. | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Thank you :) | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!To really get the benefits its suggested to do more. It's similar to going to the gym. Sure you could go to the gym for just 5 minutes a day, but wouldn't you get more out of it by working out for an hour? The same holds true. In fact, the more you meditate, the more your brain actually changes (and there's no cap to this). I recommend reading a great book called Altered Traits which explores how meditation changes the brain. They study people who have never meditated before, those with 1000 hou… | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Just wrote a book on it so yes :P | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Sure thing - So for each session I sit on a cushion (typically used in Buddhist/zen meditation halls : https://cdn11.bigcommerce.com/s-uzimh/images/stencil/1280x1280/products/76/262/ztnezf_bk__74778.1389909072.jpg?c=2) I do an hour per session. I sit in half lotus (right leg on top) for 25 minutes. Then I do a walking meditation for 10 minutes around the room. Then I'll do half lotus on the other side (left leg on top) for 25 minutes. All of this is done with eyes open because the same great eff… | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!hahahahahaha | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Personally, meditation is part of my life path (I teach Yoga too) so I don't mind prioritizing meditation over other things. However, I do think that most people can just do an hour a day and still have time to do other things! | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!Awesome!! Keep it up!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!I personally sit in Zazen (zen) meditation or do a vipassana style meditation where I just focus on my breath as it hits the tip of my nostril. If I get distracted I just bring my attention to my breath as it hits my nostrils.. Key point is to keep your eyes open so the effects spill over in your life!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!I personally sit in Zazen (zen) meditation or do a vipassana style meditation (known as Anapanasati) where I just focus on my breath as it hits the tip of my nostril. If I get distracted I just bring my attention to my breath as it hits my nostrils.. Key point is to keep your eyes open so the effects spill over in your life!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Is Masculinity overemphasized in the Red Pill?good point !! | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get with 18-20 year old girls vs. 21 to 25+ year old girls?haha classic!! | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Can you really change a girl's attraction level towards you if they weren't interested before?Great analogy!!! | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 16 | How can I deal with super hot girls?Actually the easiest way is to befriend a super hot girl. In college I sat next to this girl that was intimidating hot (you know the kind where guys would pay money to fly her out to Vegas, Miami etc) didn't hurt her case that she had bleach blonde and fake boobs which I personally like. I'd fumble my words around her and be super nervous just in her presence since I wasn't used to being with a girl of that hotness. However what I did was I friend zoned myself on purpose. I hung out with her a l… | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 05:08 AM |
| -3 | How much do you spend on dates?Ohh gotcha, is it just a personal preference? I always thought it's easier to get physical when we've both had a drink or 2 | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 07:20 AM |
| -1 | How much do you spend on dates?Yeah I don't pay for dinner, we just get drinks. Have you found the same results getting coffee/ice cream vs alcoholic drinks? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | So much advice says show your interest, sexualize the conversation, flirt, etc. How do you do this without being creepy or coming on too strong?Hey so it was on a date (so I already had her number) but we made plans to hang out next week. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | So much advice says show your interest, sexualize the conversation, flirt, etc. How do you do this without being creepy or coming on too strong?I use online apps such as Bumble, hinge, tinder, okcupid (especially more so now due to covid) | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 06:53 AM |
| 6 | So much advice says show your interest, sexualize the conversation, flirt, etc. How do you do this without being creepy or coming on too strong?In my experience the key to flirting actually comes from the teases not the flattery. If you tease her in a flirtatious way you are still showing interest but at the same time you aren't being direct, creepy or too strong. Something I used yesterday on a date with a hipster looking girl "nice glasses, you shop at urban out fitters huh" with a little eyebrow raise and smile. I'm smiling, doing the eyebrow raise (in a smirking way) = showing interest but not revealing my interest too hard like say… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??Yes I think indifference is a big thing. I have a natural friend who kinds reminds you of Pete Davidson. He wears baggy skater clothes, full sleeve tattoos, messed up hair and stubble and his whole attitude is "I don't try" . Girls went crazy for him in college because he was the only guy in the room who didn't attempt to impress or show any interest in anyone (even with guys) | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:58 PM |
| 7 | How do you go from casual hook ups to a relationship?Great response, I read the entire post thank you so much | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How much of being an "alpha" can you actually learn?Good point, I noticed I was tougher when I wrestled back in high school - I could go back to doing that and taking up a martial arts again. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How much of being an "alpha" can you actually learn?thank you man, this def puts things in perspective. I appreciate your response | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 3 | How do I man up?Hey man I'm the same age as you and ran into the same problems. One big problem I had in the workplace was that I was too "goofy"/high energy and people wouldn't take my opinion seriously or think I was just joking around. In addition not having a strong backbone or boundaries or being too pleasing gives people an unconscious signal that they can talk down to you or not take you seriously. What I found that helped was to speak less (doesn't mean to be a mute but don't gossip or blabber about som… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 6 | How do I get “Hot” female friendsI def agree with you two. I think what also helps A LOT is to become friends with really hot girls that *aren't* your type. For example I'm into skinny blonde girls with blue eyes and big boobs, I made friends with a thick Brazilian girl with a massive ass and was brunette and barely had boobs. When we'd walk down the street a some guys (and few girls) would be like "damn your girl is really hot" or they would turn around to stare at her ass lol. I didn't see anything great about her since she w… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I get “Hot” female friendsYeah it's a good idea for sure! In college I had also heard about more of a social circle approach. I made sure to sit next to a super hot girl in my class (she was blonde, had fake boobs, had the model look going on). At first I'll be honest I was super nervous first few times hanging out with her and every time we hung out I had an urge to hit on her but didn't. Eventually I started to see her as "just another girl" since she was my friend and we became closer. She started introducing me to he… | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Does not having social media makes you look like a loser?Not at all. Many of my natural friends (who haven't even heard of the word pick up artist before) don't have social media. This actually causes girls TO CHASE THEM because they are mysterious . Less is actually more nowadays. On the other hand, I will say that I've able to meet up with girls I've only had a 5 min convo with A YEAR later just because I've added them on Insta so they feel like "they know me". If I had just gotten their number and hit them up a year later there's NO way they would … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Why being an asshole is necessary while being a leader!Think of it more like an Agreeable vs Disagreeable spectrum (rather than nice guy vs asshole). Agreeable people tend to be cooperative, kind, conflict avoidant, and eager to please. Disagreeable people are blunt, defensive, argumentative and at times aggressive. Both types of personalities have it's pros and cons but in an aggressive/competitive environment like what you are describing it pays to be more disagreeable. usually more disagreeable people have a "bullydar" where they can sense who WO… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | I have a feminine core, am I screwed in terms of attracting feminine women?Things Fall Apart Thank you will check the book out | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I have a feminine core, am I screwed in terms of attracting feminine women?What are somethings you did or had happen to you that made you more masculine 6 years later? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 6 | I have a feminine core, am I screwed in terms of attracting feminine women?Love that book! I'll re-read it | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips on being a DomWell you have to understand that each person has their limits and things they do and don't enjoy (for both subs AND DOMS). Let's just say for example, OP's sub was into something like being held down and taken "against her will" (this of course has to be pre-negotiated !!) , and the OP is like no way I don't want to do that, then he would have the right to say no (it wouldn't make him any less of a dominant). Likewise if a sub is into receiving physical pain but not into verbal degradation or se… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Tips on being a DomHey bro as a Dom (and actually in the kink community) too, got some pointers. When I first started off I'd bring girls I'd meet from first dates (from school, tinder, bars, etc. not from the kink scene) back to my place and introduce my kinks (which involved being pretty rough) right away while I had sex with them. Most girls went along with it (because they were naturally submissive/receptive). but problem was I never heard from them again (and I've been over 100 dates and introduced my kink to… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a compilation video of this guy cold approaching women at clubs.Hey man, yeah it's RSD Tyler, his infield videos have long been deleted bc of SJWs and media outlets were threatening him with lawsuits. I have the vid on my computer if you'd like. He taught free events (I went to one in 6 years ago), hotseats (8 hours of him breaking down his approaches) and live bootcamps (which they still do now at RSD but it's more low key I think). | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Red pill anger. How do I handle it?Definitely been there. We tend to immerse our self in the material you'll notice examples of hypergamy and girls monkey branching right after finding out about red pill. As you know red pill rage is just a *stage* . You'll start to see that red pill isn't the answer for *everything* and you'll come back to a more balanced view. You'll then see girls who will leave bars with average SMV guys and hot girls at your work who gush over their blue pill boyfriends, or hell maybe you'll even revisit PUA… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 8 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?Yeah definitely. Even they arent supermodel hot it's nice to have that female attention (like them stroking your hair after sex, or doing a date night) that you can't get with your platonic female friends or guy friends (and what most MGTOW guys miss out on!!) . But I will say that the longer you've been in the dating market the hotter girls you feel entitled to so if it means you have less plates or even 1 or 2 for a period of time you might end up being fine with that. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the mostThanks I'll take the compliment! But the point I'm trying to make is that I only get about 15 matches per reset myself (compared to my white friends who frankly are less attractive and can get away with iphone selfies). However I use different tactics (like using different Textnow numbers, resetting my account at peak hours, etc.) to make it work so I'm able to replicate the results of "an actual chad" on tinder. Just takes a bit of initial effort but I'm able to pull 2 girls a week off it and a… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the mostlol ok then, this is my current main tinder/bumble/etc. pic.... https://drive.google.com/file/d/1y4FMgeCr0saxFT3C1dsYBq7ChLuSCUFR/view?usp=sharing | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/19 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the mostI'm a 5'7 Indian guy that weighs 125 pounds... so just excuses lol. What I will say is "having a look" (among other things like having camera quality photos (no iphone photos), social proof a good bio, etc.) will help you a lot. I mean I can write a whole article about it but there are things can do to get tons of matches (knowing when to boost your account, when to delete and reset your account), it just takes an initial learning curve as with most things but once you have a rhythm/method it's … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/19 12:32 AM |
| 10 | Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the mostMost of these MGTOW/Incel/red pill guys on the forums don't actually go out and meet women so yes it could seem that no one is getting laid. But if you actually frequent the bar scene, or have a social circle of girls and guys, you'll see that EVERYONE is getting laid loll. Just last weekend I went out to a bar with two of my female friends, a cool guy at the bar just started talking to one of my friends, nothing flashy or fancy. He was about 5'8, good fashion but nothing GQ, and was just "your … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | For the more experienced guys living outside the city: Any tips on finding women in a small town?It's not hard mode.... Just a different approach. With smaller towns it's all about social circle and exposure. So the more you can frequent a place as a regular (i.e yoga studio, gym, classes, etc.) the more the people you want to meet will get to know you. What I also did in a smaller town is merge two groups - so I introduced my gym friends to my yoga friends and I became the "leader" of both groups ( no one else thought like that in a small town!!). In a bigger city this is more difficult be… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Hot YogaAs a yoga teacher myself, I hate hot yoga (it doesn't even feel like real yoga + more chances of injury bc of the heat + you sweat unnecessarily even though you're barely burning any calories in yoga -> yoga is not considered a form of exercise!!!!) .. but I digress lol but fuck it since this is a TRP forum if you're asking about girls, yes all the hot girls (early 20's) go to hot yoga and all wear sports bras and yoga pants to class. The guys in the class can't touch their toes at all so if you… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Indian GirlsLOL??? really I've never experienced this (well then again I am Indian by descent). Not sure how you are approaching them but just tailor your approach different then. For ex, when I'm approaching brazilian girls I'll be a little more physical but with asian girls I'll act a bit more "cute" and it works. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Plates making out with other guys at the barYou're right, thank you. As far as working on my game is there anything more I need to do to make this happen less? I'm currently in good shape, have a stable job, fashion, pre-selection etc. and the other guys aren't higher than me in SMV overall (or atleast by much) | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Plate being annoying because of my unavailabilityForgot to update but yes she did break soon after the post, she flipped out over some petty thing like me logging on to her Hulu even though she told me I could lol. I kind of saw it coming but on to the next !! | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 04:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I get a GF after detoxing from the Red Pill?you're totally right! I think this has been something I've been avoiding due to Red pill conditioning. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/19 05:46 AM |
| 5 | How would being in a frat affect TRP?Being in a (good) frat is like having status just handed to you. I consistently noticed that when I was going to a big state school that the guys that were in frats literally had the highest status on campus and the access to the hottest women. Their frats historically had strong ties with certain sororities (and typically the girls who rush for sororities are hot as hell) so they would have date parties, socials, and would always do events together. As far as competition, sure you have other fr… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Getting burned every time I show interest?Thanks, read the book a while ago but will re-read again! | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | How soon do you introduce bdsm/rougher sex when hooking up?wow great insight bro! I'm definitely thinking now that I need to build more of an attachment first and THEN slowly intro it! | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Lonely being an alpha?I love that book btw! | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Lonely being an alpha?Great point! | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How much self help/game do we *actually* need??hmm yeah that's a good point!!! | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How much self help/game do we *actually* need??lmao no I don't follow the MGTOW movement (I think it's a bit butthurt) and def not an incel lol. As far as the whole lifting thing, I did get pretty jacked at one point in college, then stopped lifting and eating and lost the muscle (probably weighed 120 pounds after) and still pulled women, I just got less "choosing signs" or initial IOI's thats all. But anyways what I meant was the girls at work (corporate jobs) who were hot but had average bfs that didn't have anything going on with them is … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 5 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?I used to be the GOOFIEST guy with women, and didn't have a masculine frame at all. What I personally did to develop a strong masculine frame is to speak less but communicate more with sub communications. That would translate to giving a teasing smirk vs. saying a joke, or holding intense eye contact vs building tension via touching or talking. As far as voice goes, we already know that talking in a neutral to breaking rapport voice makes you seem more authoritative, no need to overdo the breaki… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Dates leaving early after they come overI'll check the book out (david deida right?) but I don't know if that's the solution because they're already being a little frigid/closed off when I make out with them anyways. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Dates leaving early after they come overI set a man-to-woman tone/frame during the date. A lot of eye contact, no goofy jokes from me, talking slowly, squaring up etc. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenBoth me and the natural buddy I learned being super aloof from are 5'7 with above average looks but nothing that turns heads. I think what also helps is HAVING A LOOK. My natural buddy definitely had a skater look (gauges, full sleeve tattoo, baggier clothes ,backwards hat). It made him stand out compared to guys who wore H and M clothes. I did a similar thing where I cut off the sleeves on my collared shirt to show off full sleeve tattoos (kinda likethis ) . It looks completely douchey but when… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenI've seen RSDTyler talk to girls in person as well as attended few of his (free) seminars and bought one his programs a while back. The thing is, he DOES get girls and his methods WORK, but he admits that the crazy infield videos you see on youtube were from approaches later in the night after he's approached 10-20 girls (and been rejected by most of them). The direct high interest style he does can work BUT it is a numbers game and you often have to spend hours every week doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenActually I got the pullback from my natural buddies (who've never heard of puas/redpill etc.). They would build friendships/or get girls into them and then would become scarce by not answering their phones for a few days or not being as available to hang out causing the other person to chase. They just did it naturally because they were busy and focused on other things. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with women"hey I gotta get up for work tomorrow, but let's hang next week" they get the hint. Or I *playfully* say "I'm kickin' you out, I gotta go to bed" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenI guess you forgot to read the part where I said I've been going out for close to a decade. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenYeah I agree with you there, the pullback is a great move for building crazy investment. But you obviously need to pull back from having *something* rather than nothing so that's where a *little* interest can work (i.e finding commonalities, agreements) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 08:56 AM |
| 9 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenI now take on more of a interviewer vibe so I'll ask questions about her. It does seem "boring" and counterintuitive compared to a push/pull or compliment method, but when you're the only chill, composed guy in the room full of guys trying to get her attention you actually stand out more. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Is being boring really that bad for LTRs?Great answer, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:58 AM |
| 3 | How much game do we actually need to date/keep a hot girl?I've been with a few 9's and many 8's but they're usually only a one night stand or few week hook up. Haven't really been able to have an LTR with them on a consistent/long term basis. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Fighting ability and SMVIt's not the actual ability to fight itself (otherwise the skinny club promotor or guitarist in a band wouldn't be getting laid), but the ability to handle confrontation and tension which manifests itself in certain qualities like being protective, dominant, assertive or loud. We know that the basketball player or bodybuilder probably doesn't know the techniques of fighting but because they have certain qualities of a protector such as the stereotypes of cocky bodybuilder or athlete, or aggressi… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:30 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of your hookups are coming from Tinder?Hey man about 90% of my hook ups have come from Tinder too lol. I found that once you figured the basics such as how to set up your profile and message and where to pull on a date, it just becomes EASY and it's like you're just following 3 easy steps to sex EVERY TIME. I found that pulling from bars, social circle, other venues were a lot less frequent compared to Tinder where I can sleep with 3 new girls a week. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Competing with natural Alpha wings/friends?Great response, thanks that made a lot of sense!! | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:35 PM |
| 3 | My experiment running "asshole game"HB9 blonde girl with a basic white girl out fit I would say "damn you look like you just came back from Coachella", "you remind me of my psycho friend who has her inside of her lip tattooed", "all you need is some cowboy boots to go with your outfit ;)" | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 06:06 PM |
| 3 | My experiment running "asshole game"Shy girls are into NICE GUYS. Adam Lyons a popular PUA coach from the Mystery days actually did a whole presentation about the archetypes of men that attract SPECIFIC women. The nice guys and shy girls who are insecure go well together because the nice guy gives her validation and comfort which is needed a lot more. A "neurotic/party girl" will go well with a bad boy because whenever she wants to something crazy the bad boy is there do something impulsive. He talks more about it in his video on … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 06:00 PM |
| 3 | My experiment running "asshole game"That's a great book, highly recommend it - yes one thing Dr. Glover (author of book) says is that nice guys AND jerks both come from the wrong frame because they're trying to CONTROL situations. The nice guy will make covert contracts and be manipulative while the jerk tries to control situations and boss others around. I basically used those teases and "was being an asshole" to have fun and I was focusing more on my actions which is coming from a different frame than genuinely trying to put oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 59 | My experiment running "asshole game"haha I will say that girls who ACTUALLY RESPOND to be being treated like SHIT have poor self esteem and have issues (i.e daddy issues, strippers, on drugs all the time, etc.). For the rest of girls out there, teasing and using pushes rather than pulls will do the trick. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Openers on BumbleI also get "hey's" too but that's expected, keep running your game. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 03:57 AM |
| 4 | How to Snapchat a girl you don't know very well?(I'm assuming ur in high school) It's a little different in high school as it's "socially weird" if you message random classmates you don't know. However, what you can do is post fun/crazy snapchat stories and you can see whether she looks at ur stories. If you see she's consistently looking at your stories, then eventually you can comment on one of her stories (saying something casual like "omg that's crazy" or "I can't believe that happened to you lol") then establish a back and forth .. think… | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 06:03 AM |
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