I've been in the pua community and have been going out for years (since I was 16 actually), doing cold approach, tinder, social circle game and everything else to meet girls going out few times a week. During the process, I've also worked on my inner game (meditating over an hour each day and reading tons of books), hitting the gym, got my fashion down to a point, and my instagram is solid. 

Now about 8 years later, I can definitely say that overall happiness and ability to talk to girls is a LOT better than when I started and I have had wild adventures, but I'm starting to wonder whether I actually needed to do all that work. Just a casual trip to Target or any kind of mall I see your average looking guy who doesn't go out and "game" with a pretty hot girlfriend. Guys at my 9 to 5 job have cute to super hot LTR girlfriends that they've been dating for months.

Sure I've had many FWB's/pseudo relationships with girls for months too but they weren't exclusive and I could never imagine bringing them out to do mundane things like running errands, grocery shopping or staying in and playing video games. So I guess my question is, how much do we ACTUALLY need to do, when there's guys out there who don't hit bars, use tinder, go to the gym and generally live a BORING life and have long term relationships with HOT girls for months!!!