Opportunities that aren't there

TRPalexmehr · 2018-02-15T06:40:48+00:00

You can either try to lie to yourself or you can use your reality to drive you to work harder towards your goals.

If you are working hard on your goals you will feel content. Just know that you are still very young and have lots of time to enjoy life. Putting in the work now will mean that in 5 years you are more successful than 90% of guys will ever be.

cappadocianhawk · 2018-02-15T08:29:32+00:00

Every day you don't improve is making you fall further behind. Not all of us were born with money, status, or good looks but quite a few people here have made it through hard work. You can too.

Actually college years are the best to improve SMV because it only gets harder from there on when you're working and start to have a very static life, there will be much more resistance to your changes from people around you.

Sure, you might be missing opportunities but if you don't have good enough SMV and confidence those opportunities don't exist for you anyway, so being sad and bitter doesn't help you. What helps you is working towards your goals and getting a good education.

SirKolbath · 2018-02-15T08:57:07+00:00

For one thing, you could read the sidebar and stop worrying about getting laid. Everyone is so damn focused on the pussy. TRP is about becoming such a great man that the pussy comes to you.

You say your SMV is low. What have you done to raise it? Do you lift? How long have you being doing so? Have you developed at least two masculine hobbies for yourself? When was the last time you meditated? What amplifying material from the sidebar have you read and notated?

Until you've done all of that, you don't deserve to get laid, and a man that has done it is going to take the girl that you could have picked up away from you.

ronmexico8 · 2018-02-16T06:06:05+00:00

You got to get into the gymnasium and start lifting. Join a club to occupy your free time.

People peak at different times. The hottest girl in 8th grade was unattractive by the time college came. The blandest girl from high school is now a smokeshow. Don't compare yourself to people who are peaking now because that will change.

By reading this stuff and MOST IMPORTANTLY starting to build muscle (which builds confidence), you'll settle into the groove that you're seeking.

Adamn27 · 2018-02-15T11:31:12+00:00

I'm a college kid [...] feeling like I've fucked my life up

Man. I found TRP when I was 27. Even with this age it was life changing. You have everything to live the life the way you want. You are young you are free you have the knowledge (TRP) you got everything.

Just work on yourself and everything going to be fine.

Title	Opportunities that aren't there
Author	engincel
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	February 15, 2018 6:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7xom4v/opportunities_that_arent_there/
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