A question for everyone from plate spinners to those in LTRs. Wondering how you handle paying for dates. I'm in an LTR now where we're pretty even (mostly split, sometimes I pay, sometimes she pays). When I was spinning plates I was adamant that I wouldn't pay 100%.

Wondering what other guys are doing. On one hand, I feel like it's messed up to expect a guy to pay for every date, it's also unsustainable if you go out a lot. Not paying helped me weed out the gold diggers. On the other hand, I feel like it might lower value because it makes you look cheap, or that you can't afford it.

What do you guys think?