My GF insulted my penis size in front of people. We were drinking.

Long story short it was a misunderstanding, as we had been previously talking about an acquaintance who is involved with a guy (an affair) and she had intended to insult that guy’s penis.

Regardless of the intent I was humiliated. Thing is, I’m well above average but I have had performance anxiety pretty badly in the past, and did at the start of our relationship (bad sex for months).

I feel this incident is going to trigger that performance anxiety again. And the people we were with all think I have a small cock now but I don’t.

I love my GF very much. I’m still really pissed about it but I guess I’ll get over it. But any tips to get past performance anxiety would really be appreciated as it literally took months (we live together now and have been seeing each other over a year) I don’t want this to reset our sex life. Thanks!