I got a text from this plate I've been spinning today. She asked if she can go over to this guy's house (I know she's had sex with him before) and smoke. She says she wants to go smoke and hang out with a female friend who lives with this guy, but she doesn't want to sleep with him, which she knows is his goal. She wants me to give her a reason why she shouldn't go and she wants to know how I feel about it.

I haven't responded yet, but this is what I have typed up:

"I'm not going to tell you who you can or can't hang out with. You're an adult, and you're not my property. Make your own decision. If you want to sleep with him, you will, and if you don't, you won't. Nothing I say will change that and I don't think I have to tell you what I think about it."

I think she's trying to dread me into exclusivity, but I really think it could also be a comfort test, in which case my response probably isn't the best.

What do you guys think? If she does end up going, should I next her?