Plating and being plated

redpillspeeddate · 2015-08-25T08:15:17+00:00

If you care about her fidelity, she isn't a plate.

The goal should be you are better than anything else she thinks she can get and the higher your SMV the less you worry. If you are afriad of her screwing someone better than you then she will. If you have the attitude that there is no way she would do better than you, she will sense it and push for more commitment, which you keep light at all costs.

machimus · 2015-08-25T07:19:40+00:00

You make it sound like it's a bad thing. What's the problem here?

babydocnorman · 2015-08-25T14:11:28+00:00

Remember that's it's just your turn with her, especially if she's a plate.

redpillspeeddate · 2015-08-25T08:15:17+00:00

If you care about her fidelity, she isn't a plate.

The goal should be you are better than anything else she thinks she can get and the higher your SMV the less you worry. If you are afriad of her screwing someone better than you then she will. If you have the attitude that there is no way she would do better than you, she will sense it and push for more commitment, which you keep light at all costs.

TheOuterRing · 2015-08-25T17:16:36+00:00

Who cares? Alpha doesn't mean you're a leader of a wolf pack.

Alpha is just a state of mind. If you're not going to commit to her, then she has no obligation either. Otherwise it becomes a giant double standard. You either let women be hoes, and use that to your advantage, or you ask for them to be moral and not sleep around, but you better do the same.

Just because you own the 'alpha' game doesn't mean your multiple partners will automatically be okay with everything. I've never heard of men with more than one wife saying they always get along and never get jealous. Those relationships only work because of religion or the women are getting something out of it. Not because he's so amazing that they get over it. Once a woman has emotional attachment, jealousy will ensue if you're with other women. It's only human to not want to share what you are attached to.

Just let her be. If she is plating then that means less of a chance for her to go all LTR on you. Which, for the sake of plating, is what you want to avoid.

Title	Plating and being plated
Author	pokerb
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	August 25, 2015 7:09 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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