Background: I've been dating this HB9 (no sex for now) , for a couple of weeks (we had couple of dates). She had a major operation procedure so I went a little slow with this one because she feels like shit and still recovering. So this weekend she had a birthday at which she invited me on. I accepted the invitation since I was thinking she is qualifying for me and this is kinda a big deal for her since we live in a pretty much conservative EE country. Birthday went pretty much good, but after the "party" was over I asked if she wants to join me at my place she declined apologized for not coming with me because she feels like shit. I brushed it of IDGF. When I got home I got text msg where she thanked me for understanding the situation and how glad she is that I came at her birthday.

Due work I was planning to leave next day early in the morning, so I knew we won't meet again that day, but due to some fuck ups with tickets my plans changed and now I had a full day of free time. So I texted her that I am going to stay another day in town and behold she texted nothing back and I went radio silence since then.

Usually, I wouldn't be confused with this shit, but this girl is still recovering from her medical condition and is fucked up.

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Am I hamstering this too much, because she has legit problems or she just isn't interested? What do you guys think what would be the best course of action?

My plan is to soft next her for a couple of days and then reinitiate contact like nothing happened.

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P.S.: Sorry English is not my first language