Practicing Emotional Impregnability

JaxSwagger · 2015-04-02T08:04:21+00:00

Amused mastery is like chuckling when a child tries to wrestle with you. It's paternal, unwavering, strong, masculine love in its purest form.

Goldfulgore · 2015-04-02T11:40:23+00:00

If I am in a good mood, I will use amused mastery. If not, I just tend to ignore whatever she says.

There are steps that you need to take before amused mastery becomes second nature.

First you need to get emotionally unaffected by women. No anger whatsoever. Being a Red Pill man means that you don't take anything personally. It's just how a woman's nature is.

Then you need to stop being annoyed by their nature. This is even harder for a Red Pill man

Let's say you bought a dog. You are clearly not personally affected by what your dog does to you as it's clearly a dog which doesn't know any better. But if it starts pissing on the carpet, even though you know it's a dog, chances are you will still get mad.

Amused mastery comes with experience, having cleaned up the carpet so many times, that you bought a waterproof one (if that exists).

FrankWG · 2015-04-02T10:44:53+00:00

Forget amused mastery. It's a byproduct, not the point.

You don't "use" amused mastery.

Do you get upset when you shoot the shit with your friends? Let's say you are watching a game, you disagree on something with your best friend, he tells you that you must be a faggot. Do you take the insult seriously?
No. You chuckle, and don't even register it.

Funny thing: plenty of guys start thinking they need to be alpha and start being intolerable pricks who can't take a joke anymore. The irony!

RedditArgument · 2015-04-02T07:39:36+00:00

Amused mastery is the outward result of good inner game. With experience shit tests no longer upset and only 'amuse' you. There is no decent alternate mindset for an alpha man that I know of that involves arguing with women. That is a beta behaviour. If it stops becoming amusing and starts become annoying and disrespectful the master says goodbye.

If you're looking for ways to improve yourself in this regard I recommend meditating and spinning plates before jumping into an LTR. You are the mountain. They may rain on you all day, lightning can strike you, hail can pelt you, but in the end the timeless and steady mountain remains. First become the mountain and amused mastery will find you.

Now keep in mind this is coming from a journeyman and not a master however I can say with almost certainty that those two things are instrumental in bringing me on that path.

Edit because I didn't answer your question: The feeling of amused mastery is exactly how it sounds. Shit tests only serve to amuse and are deflected or returned in a comfortable way. To reiterate to experience this you need experience and a clear head, hence my suggestions of mediating and plate spaghetti

GoodQualityStapler · 2015-04-02T09:55:14+00:00

I understand what you mean. How can I be amused when something is pissing me off? The problem here is that you get pissed off to begin with. Let's think about it another way. If your little niece said your breath stinks, will you be upset? Probably not. You will laugh (amused) and then lick her nose (mastery). Same concept only applied differently.

Apanthropos · 2015-04-02T11:44:24+00:00

The more serious you are about something in your life, the more it matters to you. If you put women on pedestal, you will want to have serious logical conversations with them.

However, women despise men who take them seriously because they want men to have something more important in their life than them. By being amused, you show that you don't take them seriously and their little worth they hold in your life.

Another method besides amused mastery is to ignore/change the subject in the communication. You dont have to be amused for this, as it already shows that their conversations hold little value to you. However, women are emotional creatures, so you have to spark emotion through other means. Rewarding/punishing their good/bad behaviour is a good way to conpensate this.

RPthrowaway123 · 2015-04-02T12:26:15+00:00

Amused mastery is one of those things that is incredibly obvious, but difficult to grasp at the same time. The usual example is this: imagine her to be like a child. How does a parent react when a child acts out in some small, silly way?

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-04-02T20:42:40+00:00

If a bitch can access your lizard brain, you're gonna lose. That's an involuntary reaction.

Try meditation, or some grounding exercises like yoga or qigong. To some degree desensitation through repetition and familiarity with psycho-bitch mind games will help you as well.

prodigyx · 2015-04-02T17:00:26+00:00

I once dated a girl who thought the sky was blue because it reflected the ocean. That's what amused mastery feels like, except not about facts & science, but about frame & shit tests.

Title	Practicing Emotional Impregnability
Author	Nitrobroom
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Date	April 2, 2015 6:21 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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