Pretty confused here

DevilishRogue · 2014-10-07T10:01:46+00:00

You missed your window of opportunity and are now acting like a blue pill creep. Ignore/avoid and see if she comes to you, if not you need to next her.

Goldfulgore · 2014-10-07T10:09:06+00:00

you are failing to her shit tests

The more a woman pushes you away, the more you push her away yourself.

Never chase a woman if she pushes you away. I thought everyone knew this by now.

Ignore her next time and do not engage in her until she does. You have fucked up but if there is any chance to change this around this is it.

forgeror · 2014-10-07T09:51:04+00:00

What do you mean by "she asked me to be her bp partner"?

oldredder · 2014-10-07T13:27:11+00:00

Lesson for next time: next time always go for being the beer-pong partner. The point is not to do well with the game but with her and you can fuck up the game entirely but still get her making out with you. You can do it on purpose for fun and pretend you need her "special touch" to get your game on. Like one hand on your hand to aim the ball. "Hmm, still not feelin' it. Something's missing... " (grab her other hand, place it on your crotch in front of everyone) "... Yup, that's it!" and take your shot (hopefully make that shot, outcome independence and all but this is now a show and you really should make the shot for that scene).

You gotta learn to have fun.

Also you need to learn when to make the girl chase for you too. They can and will if they value you. If she's a 9 always being hit on she may get distracted by other guys hitting on her but if she really took interest you had a shot to make her work for it because you have to exude in tone of speech & body language that you know she should, like you expect it, like that's a thing which is normal for you.

If you don't look like you believe it she won't.

Anyhow I'm mostly certain you missed the window. There's more 9's out there.

ireallyamnothere · 2014-10-07T17:33:28+00:00

Missed your window of opportunity. Best to walk away and just not focus on her in any way.

Remember, women as a general rule define attraction by how they feel at that moment. Only after you have helped create a powerful feeling during that moment will she start to associate you with those positive feelings over a longer period of time. If too much time passes between those moments, she's going to lose that sense of connection.

If you don't take advantage of the moment, she's going to forget about you and you have to start over from scratch and probably at a disadvantage. That's just one more reason for ABE... Always Be Escalating.

Title	Pretty confused here
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Date	October 7, 2014 6:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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