Hello fellow red pillers. My problem is little weird but I'll try to be precise without useless bullshit.

As a teenager I started masturbating as most of people at this age, problem is instead of standard wanking I'd be laying on my stomach while putting hands underneath me the way end part my penis would be squished between torso and hands. Very weird masturbation method that I don't think I've ever heard anybody except me doing.

Fast forward few years, my first sex happened and I didn't have much... Well anything of pleasure. Wasn't about mentality, as far as I'm concerned (was hard af and didn't stress about anything).

Few years forward again, about to turn 21 soon. My lay count is 10, in LTR right now. Still cannot come during normal sex although I do feel pleasure. I can come by wanking but I have to stress my whole body to the point I'm standing on my toes, everytime I feel dizzy afterwards for about 5 minutes.

So you can kinda see my problem here. Nothing I've tried so far helped (stopping to masturbate/having sex for a longer period of time, masturbating but only by waking etc). Problem isn't emotional either as I've always been pretty comfortable about myself and having sex. Having (don't take this as a brag) relatively above large dick doesn't really help either (research shows we have same amount of nerves on all dicks, so bigger ones give the owners less pleasure).

Ofc I am going to book a meeting with sexologist once I have a day off, until then any of you had similar experience and possible fixes to the body not working as God I tended it to?