There is this girl I've been sleeping with and trying to LTR, however she wants an emotional relationship only. Whenever she asks I'll agree with her and say I too want to be in one. But every night we end up getting physical because I initiate.

However she is feeling guilty every morning and that makes her harder to be with and harder to influence as well as harder to sleep with.

At this point I want to LTR her, but my gut is telling me that I might have oneitis. However how can it be oneitis if I'm successfully closing with her every night?

If it helps we are both college students and Muslim and I consider her an 8 in looks and 9 in personality (to be rational I must admit I may likely have a bias

Trp, I have been trying to attract a girl for so long and I don't know what to do when I have her or heavily influence her.

Thank you for reading and advising me on this matter.