Question about 80/20 rule

lordjippy · 2017-05-22T03:26:00+00:00

It doesn't mean 20% of the men 'date' 80% of the women. It's just that the 20% chooses the best.

Terdmuffin · 2017-05-22T05:31:09+00:00

You're thinking about it wrong. I don't have time to delve into it now but think about it like over a given month. If you take 10 guys and 2 lay a girl once a week (8 total) and 2 guys get laid once (2 total) and the other 6 guys don't get laid... That works to 20% of the guys laying 80% of the girls and the other 80% laying 20%...make sense?

jay_jay_man · 2017-05-22T12:50:59+00:00

Because women throw themselves at Chad and make it easy for him. Chad doesn't have to invest anything in these girls. Chad get's these girls at a discount, often fucking these girls in < 3 physical meetups.

It's the betas of the world who pay top dollar for these girls that went on discount for the alphas. These girls demand that the betas whine and dine them, for months in many cases. The girls purposefully take it slow to not look like a slut.

Let's compare two hypothetical people, Beta Fred & Alpha Chad.

Beta Fred spent: 2 months on dates before she had sex $800 on dates for this girl

Alpha Chad spent: 2 weeks (didn't date her) before she had sex $5 on cheap drinks he made at his place to loose her up

The yearly totals for Fred is a maximum of 6 girls and $4,800 The yearly totals for Chad is a maximum of 26 girls and $130

xX_NanShanker420_Xx · 2017-05-22T08:53:32+00:00

the idea is that the majority of women GO TO chads and a smaller portion to more average guys

Never-quitting · 2017-05-22T04:38:06+00:00

If you do the math its like 4 girls for every 1 guy.

Autonomy_Economy · 2017-05-22T14:44:51+00:00

You're assuming the Chads take time to "date". Pump and dump is a significant percentage.

blackedoutfast · 2017-05-22T16:20:16+00:00

it means that women would rather be one of Chad's 4 plates versus being Billy Beta's exclusive girlfriend. ideally they would be in a committed, exclusive LTR with a high SMV alpha male, but if they can't acheive that they would rather share an alpha than be with a beta.

don't get caught up in the specific numbers, 80/20 (Pareto principle) is concept that comes up in a lot of different areas that also roughly correlates to the sexual marketplace.

raisins3142 · 2017-05-23T03:33:57+00:00

Because by the time I had bedded 10 women, I had friends that had fucked 100.

It also isn't that 20% of men are having all the sex or that out of all sex acts performed 80% of these are done by 20% of men. For that to be true, then those guys would do little except fuck different women all day.

I think math wise it would be closer represented in the number of unique pairings (only take into account the first time two different people fuck). Let's say that there is a village with 100 men and 100 women. They may be variously paired in relationships that shift over time with casual sex also. Given enough time, nearly all women in that village will have been fucked at least once by at least one guy in the top 20 of men. In fact, most of an average woman's partners (especially outside of relationships) will be among those 20. And there's gonna be a lot of guys on the sidelines hardly getting anything.

Title	Question about 80/20 rule
Author	Theclouddude
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	May 22, 2017 2:54 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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