After a recent break-up, I started to re-read the sidebar. I've just finished reading the LS effect on the main sub and after reading the comments, I noticed something very very interesting.

After a long term relationship or towards the end of it, the girl's behaviour changes to "You've never loved me" or "There were no good times." This happened to mine also. Why does this happen? Something I noticed with mine was this: My now ex told me we could continue fucking if I wanted but the relationship is over. After we made the breakup official she was suddenly very like her old-happy-self. She was laughing a lot (text messages, long laughs) saying positive things about my sexuality etc.

Why does the light-switch happen? I know it's the feelingz but what changes them? Is it being less attractive? Is it something else? Is it another man (if so why tell me we can continue sexually also saying the sex was good but the romantism wasn't)? Or her being away for some weeks?