Quick question about a first date.

mrpoopistan · 2017-10-18T05:17:55+00:00

DANCING! Proper traditional dancing, like salsa.

Seriously. It encourages you to lead. She sees other women moving, which tends to prompt a sexualized and competitive response. Chicks these days tend to only twerk, so you can really put her in a weak social position by making her go do real dancing.

Also, there's a pretty good chance she'll brag to her friends, opening up additional possibilities down the road.

If nothing else, it makes you look way more interesting than, say, the lame dude who takes her to an escape room. (What are you, a fourteen year old?)

replicaplater · 2017-10-18T05:10:43+00:00

Go play mini-golf, billiards, shuffle-board, these all give you easy opportunities for kino as well. If you wanna be outside more go to a park and do something like play frisbee.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-10-18T07:23:14+00:00

Usually taken girls to billiard. Then fuck their shots by slight push. Best when u are lazy and perfect for kino. I am no school kid either anymore so my 1st are usually card drive thro city with pizza. Also makes lots of reasons for kino.

[deleted] · 2017-10-18T11:14:25+00:00

No dates. In college, the sex is pretty much anywhere except dates

VirginPlaya · 2017-10-18T11:51:57+00:00

If you want to have fun do whatever is more fun for you.

If you want to escalate with a chick do the "netflixxx & chill" thing.

If the chick is into you sexually she'll be down for that. If not, there's no date idea that can save you.

P.s. I completely blanked on "it's a first date" thing. Anyways, point is if the chick is into you she'll be down with a simple walk in a park as a date. No need to do anything "fun" or "special" if you don't feel like it.

FlexGunship · 2017-10-18T13:26:30+00:00

Why do people ask these questions?

Do something you like. Invite her along as a guest. I took a girl to one of my races as a first date. While I was driving she was socializing and cheering me on.

If you want to see a SPECIFIC movie, go and see it... and invite her as an after thought.

If you're doing shit that you don't like for a girl that really hasn't produced any value for you, then you're kind of a loser. Sorry. Man up.

Don't be machiavellian about it. Just do a thing YOU LIKE and invite her.

DiggerClam · 2017-10-18T19:40:44+00:00

Jesus, you guys are spending way too much time and money on first dates with chicks who could be pieces of shit.

90min MAX at a cool bar. 1 drink. 15mins fluff talk then direct the talk sexual and start kino. By 60 mins you should know if she's half decent and worth your time. Either end the date then set date two up in a couple of days at your house or gauge if she's DTF there and then.

Title	Quick question about a first date.
Author	skinny_guy_guy
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	October 18, 2017 4:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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