Quick question: if your LTR name drops a guy she finds attractive randomly. Is that a straight drop to plate or cut ties?

redhawkes · 2019-01-22T22:25:03+00:00

You're operating in her frame. Read 12 Levels of Dread, apply. She knows what she's doing.

Watch her behavior and trust your gut. Do not react or show any signs that you're phased.

If the bullshit continues, demote.

nu121x · 2019-01-22T22:37:41+00:00

She's testing you. Agree and amplify.

"New hookah server is cute."
"Yeah I'd fuck him"

There is obviously so many times you can say something like this, but if this happens too often, you need to look at your overall frame. Do you think she would ever shit-test an A-list Hollywood actor like this? Not a chance.

I think what many people don't realize and/or what isn't said here often enough is that shit-tests shouldn't be looked at in isolation. Sometimes you go to the doctor to treat a persistent cough and the prescribed medicine makes the cough go away. If the cough is a one-off, it makes sense to go to the doctor. But what if you have an immune system disorder? You can keep going to the doctor and mask the symptoms, but ultimately you're not solving the underlying problem and you may end up dead.

The patient/doctor relationship is analogous to posters and AskTRP. If she's shit-testing you this often and you are bothered enough to come to AskTRP to ask for advice while saying he can fuck, you may be becoming too beta for her and you need to look at other areas of your relationship to make her more attracted to you. Start going to the gym if you're not already, get new hobbies, find other ways of raising SMV and becoming less available, etc.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-01-22T22:29:01+00:00

Every girl that I knew that went to hookah/shisha lounges were sluts.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-01-22T23:40:29+00:00

Mentions him once? Shit test. Pass and move on.

Mentions him multiple times? Just disrespectful. It wouldn't hurt my frame and I wouldn't react negatively to it. If LTR, I'd probably soft next and apply some dread. If other red flags have been popping up though I'd consider just hard nexting.

I'm too young and there's too many fish in the sea for this shit.

mrmaldoror · 2019-01-22T23:54:01+00:00

Dread dread dread.

Though I've seen some couples do this for fun, the guy gets to stare at every hot bitch and she occasionally gets to point out an attractive male. Whatever floats your boat.

Bruchibre · 2019-01-23T02:25:41+00:00

Kick his ass and she’ll never mention his name again. JK. But remind her you are not her Girlfriend or Gay Best Friend. She can gossip with her bitches.

friendandadvisor · 2019-01-23T07:42:09+00:00

Sounds like she's planning on getting rogered roundly by him.

I say: Demote to plate.

Here endeth the lesson.

imtakingashitrn · 2019-01-23T13:16:45+00:00

Next time she goes to the hookah lounge she’ll be blowing more than just smoke

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Title	Quick question: if your LTR name drops a guy she finds attractive randomly. Is that a straight drop to plate or cut ties?
Author	K-dollarz
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	January 22, 2019 10:19 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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