Hello,

A new member of the TRP, have been reading through the comments and posts and a thought keeps appearing to my mind.

Essentially, at its core, TRP is telling those, doing their thing in the way they feel most comfortable to go against that way of being for a new approach (TRP), than what they would naturally be doing. A lot of men on there seem to be going through relationship issues and then come to TRP to rescue them. RP men disperse advice like candy, but all this advice is basically telling them to do things differently than what they would do NATURALLY, this is the keyword here. TRP tells men to go against how they actually are and put on an ACT. Putting on an ACT never goes well, some people can be the stoic bad boy others cannot. Women are so much more perceptive and emotionally in-tune, they see right through your acts, they can pick up on the slightest changes in your mood and personality and know when you are faking who you naturally are. We should not think it's a one size fits all, silver-bullet type thing for the guys looking for help on TRP, yet that is what I keep seeing. The same advice for a multitude of different personalities out there. This RP information, they would have never NATURALLY come to on their own and therefore they should not be the ones trying to implement it, it must come naturally from one's inner-most self.

Essentially being RP'd is like following someone else's recipe. It goes against your natural will. Do you all see how this is a gigantic problem? Now we have very simple men trying to be hard stoic RPers, it's just not going to work for them. Not everyone is made the same, mentally/physically. Some men are just naturally stronger physically and some are naturally stronger mentally. Some people just have an aptitude in life for carrying out RP role, and others no matter how hard they try will never be like that. It's always an attempt and their personalities just don't fit into the RP mentality. One can't just follow someone else's recipe for success in being RP'd. If anything I feel like it's a recipe for chaos to not follow your own natural way of being.

Please explain how you think this a good idea? I see it blowing up in a lot of guy's faces. I don't think most men are capable of being a RP'er anyways. To me, it seems to state we should not go about life in the way we normally do. Instead we should take the advice of others and follow it. What makes TRP correct? Where is the proof? So many people are willfully taking advice off of TRP and trying to apply it to their lives, to improve their game and the like. To make themselves a carbon-copy version of what someone told them to be, this to me, is of the greatest insult to oneself. Why is it, to you RPer's, good for men to go against their natural instincts and natural way of being?

Thanks