Red pill = Boring guy

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-23T14:45:57+00:00

That’s because you ARE a boring guy,

RP doesn’t mean becoming a spergy retard. RP means becoming the best version of you, you’re trying to change the boring billy beta who always chased women to an Alpha, texting less and not sharing is not something you do because you read it on some message boards, it’s an effect of having a life that has more important shit going on that ignoring bitches and requires you to value yourself not to vomit everything about yourself to everyone.

Find your mission, this isn’t some PUA shit. When you’re busy and on your mission you automatically don’t have time to chase dumb sloots or inclination to share over much with them and they pick up on this

talexanderc · 2020-03-23T14:42:41+00:00

Gotta mess with them. Push pull. Make fun of them. Twist their words

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-03-23T14:58:02+00:00

You're trying too hard to be the tough cool guy. You still need to be yourself, just a less insecure, needy you.

fratercicero · 2020-03-23T14:46:53+00:00

It sounds like when you’re talking to girls you are doing so with the sole intention of banging them. Remember that the primary reason for having conversations with people is to enjoy the conversation that you are having. If you aren’t enjoying the conversation that you’re having then I can almost guarantee she isn’t either. Try to enjoy the overall seduction process a little more instead of thinking about it like it’s some chore you have to do. If you find that you aren’t enjoying the conversations you have with a specific girl then just move on to another one that you do. Lastly talk about stuff that interests you both. If you can’t find anything that you share in common, then again I advise you to spend your time finding a girl you do connect with. You can open up a little, just don’t tell them your whole life story. Keep a little mystery about you it will keep them wanting to find out a little more about you. Good luck

Testinat0r · 2020-03-23T14:53:03+00:00

It's you. Red pill generally makes you a more interesting guy

colinnb · 2020-03-23T15:07:23+00:00

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okuli · 2020-03-23T15:22:17+00:00

The book of Pook explains how to not be boring. Read it.

themummypersonified · 2020-03-23T18:06:11+00:00

Check out Mr. Vs texting guide

jja221 · 2020-03-23T18:35:03+00:00

Texting is for logistics man. This is a basic rule: if you want to have texting conversations, you're aiming for the friend zone. Text your friends, not women you're interested in. You want to keep those interactions in person as much as possible.

Also you aren't supposed to just pull back and be bland. Be yourself, just don't be thirsty, over available, clingy, etc. all of the things that come naturally when you have options as a man- which comes naturally when you have your shit together, and have your priorities in order.

A lot of these sorts of questions are putting the cart before the horse. When you do that, things become pretty complicated. RP life is actually supposed to be simple. All of these social manipulation tips you see on here, these are things you don't even need to think about when pussy isn't your top concern, and having a successful life is.

Women are like bloodhounds when it comes to whether or not a man is independent and confident; its evolution. Women have to give birth and protect the young of their species, as such they subconsciously seek out a man they can depend on, rather than another dependent. a woman about to give birth in the wild has more than enough responsibilities, without having to coddle a grown ass man.

But that's why there's pages upon pages of content here explaining what and what not to do. Because if you aren't truly independent and confident, it's a TON of work to fake it, and maintain that image.

But if you stop worrying about getting laid and start worrying about progressing your life outside of the scope of "how can I get laid", you don't need any of that shit, because it's a natural occurrence once you have your life on track. When pussy is your #1 concern and end goal, women will smell that on you and will not like it. you'll have to work really hard at social manipulation to keep that a secret.

Thus is the fine line between true RP life, and scummy pick up artists. Both are here. Choose your path wisely!

SaberSpyder · 2020-03-23T18:42:22+00:00

Don't listen to these guys bellow, honestly i didnt realise i became a robot constantly thinking of "frame frame frame frame" untill my friend told me, look within if you were better before, go back to that guy.

wanker7171 · 2020-03-23T18:44:26+00:00

How do i remain fun if i have to show no emotion

The fuck, how is this a takeaway of TRP? Not being reactive and not being emotional are not the same thing. You have to show emotion if you want to be good at game.

i also cant compliment them because then im validating them

You can compliment girls but the caveat is that you can't compliment them as an excuse for conversation or because you want them to like you. If you want to say you can't because you'd be validating them then I'd say "Alright well then you also can't approach any girls because you'd be validating them." Validation is not inherently bad but BPed tards use it for everything which is why it's better to avoid it for most newcomers.

So how can i be fun to text

Read the sidebar and start molding yourself into a more interesting man. It starts with a change of your mindset as your actions and behaviors are a manifestation of your thoughts.

GloomySpeech · 2020-03-23T20:02:47+00:00

Nobody told you to show no emotions. Women crave emotions. Emotions are essential to get a girl's interest.

Whatever you were reading, you massively misunderstood it.

Compliments are completely different than emotions. An entirely different thing.

Domebeers · 2020-03-23T22:11:06+00:00

"fun to text"

you don't get it.

mikkeldaman · 2020-03-24T03:22:14+00:00

I think you got it pretty wrong. A red pilled guy can still be a fun guy, a red pilled guy can still show emotions, a red pilled guy can still compliment a woman when she deserves it. The only thing that differentiates a red pilled guy from a blue pilled guy is the fact that the former is aware of biological dynamics and does not believe in unicorns, and therefore adapts accordingly. When I first discovered the red pill (granted I have a very red pilled dad and always had him as an example), I did not change fundamentally. I still had the same personality. It was just my view of the world and my responses to external events that changed.

Title	Red pill = Boring guy
Author	tbhbbbbd
Upvotes	11
Comments	37
Date	March 23, 2020 2:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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