Been swallowing the Red Pill these past two weeks and its become obvious to me that I'm with the wrong woman completely and I've screwed myself in a chitty situation. I've been so fucking beta. Need some advice on each points.

  • She's never been really sexual with me and she's a terrible flirt. But the sex has halted to the point I'm now in a dead bedroom.

I go a week sometimes without seeing her due to my work. When I come back she's less than enthusiastic to see me. No enthusiastic kiss. Goes to sleep and says shes tired rather than have sex. She's definitely not cheating (I've verified out of paranoia.) But the fact she could care a fuck about satisfying me gets to me.

So I am down at hers, and guess what? No sex again. She expects me to take her for dinner on thursday. Am I right by thinking that she doesn't deserve this and that I shouldnt go? What should I say without it coming off butt hurt about sex.

  • I owe her money because I was fairly beta on in the relationship and had a drought were I didn't have any work. She billed me for meals out together, petrol, tickets to see a band with her cousin that i promised but didn't have the cash at time. Even clothes that i said she could have for letting me get a PS4 on credit.

So i took it on the chin and said okay thats fine I want a receipt and I want to know the amount. So she freaks out, HOW DARE YOU ASK FOR A RECEIPT!! Like i had cheated on her or something.

She screams "ILL ADD INTEREST" Then we get into an argument that I won't pay for her shitty tickets or clothes and just pay for what I really owe in my eyes, The PS4.

So she says she has it in writing which she does on Facebook convos. What is my legal right here? Surely she cant prove all the meals they arent in writing.

  • She's a post wall feminist whose put on weight. The solipsism is so strong in this one. She stone walls my attempts to communicate with her if things get a little heated. She uses my laptop when Im at hers. She's been googling that shes in an abusive relationship. Even got the women's aid survival handbook. Yet i feel like she's the emotionally abusive one. How is it that she feels abused? I've been good to her, been so deeply enthralled in her frame for so long. She likes it. She likes having the power.

  • I need to walk don't I? But scarcity and emotional investment making it hard for me. I know she'll move on before me. The thought of it kills me. How do I deal with the break up knowing i cant just go out and fuck ten other women because i need to work on my SMV?

  • She wants me to move closer to her now that ive landed a job. She wants me to take her to dinner. Yet she doesn't want to put out. I want genuine desire. Yet she does not respect me and my needs when I voice them. How can she genuinely expect these things of me if she wont even provide basic relationship needs?

Thanks for reading.