Response to LJBF?

walawalawa · 2017-03-11T10:26:03+00:00

I'm a man you're a woman, I see you as a woman, not a friend. if that's what you want, I understand. I have plenty of friends. Good luck.

Leave. Do not respond to her...for at least 3 months. if she's STILL contacting you...not the other way around....then set up something where she comes over to your place to cook...and make your move.

DO NOT...be friends with a woman you want to fuck. You can be friends...sure...but fucking her should NOT be part of that equation or you're an orbiter.

I have hot female friends. But I do not escalate with them and have no sexual interest in them...usually because they were with friends of mine. That's a turn off in most cases.

Ivabighairy1 · 2017-03-11T09:00:05+00:00

Thanks but no, I have enough friends.

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-11T13:36:48+00:00

"Well, yeah, you're fun to hang out with. Just give me some time to catch a breath!"
Then you get another chick, overcome the oneitis, and when and if you decide to, you game her properly and build some sexual tension.

Deraileur · 2017-03-11T17:35:59+00:00

I agree with the previous poster who said - if you're getting the LJBF at all you have already fucked up because she either doesn't know what you want (your fault for not polarizing early), or she needs beta orbiter validation (which you should have already shot down by displaying high value), or she is looking for a "graceful" way out of an awkward situation (i.e. YOU made her feel weird and she needs to blow you off).

That said, LJBF should ALWAYS be hit with... No, I can't do that. I'm sexually interested in you and because of that we simply can't be friends.

Polarizes. Shows your interest. Brings the word/idea "sex" into the open. Shows her you'd rather lose her that be a sad orbiter, demonstrating you have self esteem, abundance, and value yourself.

[deleted] · 2017-03-11T14:04:39+00:00

Walk away without saying a word and ghost

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-11T15:28:02+00:00

You need to polarize early so you don't end up in this situation.

Don't be a chicken! Make a move.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-03-11T11:12:03+00:00

Who cares about the response. If that gets dropped, you blew it long before that.

Once you start doing it right, women will view you as a sexual being. Also don't talk to or hang out with girls unless you're trying to f-close. You gave her too much platonic vibes

Title	Response to LJBF?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	March 11, 2017 8:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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