I met up with a girl and she came over to mine after we did some hiking, we were both sweaty and smelly so I thought maybe we could just kiss instead of dirtying my just cleaned sheets.
I got her into my room, we made out for like a couple minutes, I felt her leg and ass a little bit and then she backed off and said I don't fuck at all. I'm do not believe I indicated I wanted to fuck right there and then, so I tried to ignore her completely and started kissing her neck but she pulled back again and it seemed real serious.
So this led me to probe her a little, I'm young so I thought she was still a virgin but then I asked her if she ever fucked and she said she had and her ex waited one full year (so she does fuck).
In the end my response was something like "okay you can go home, because I'm not gonna wait around".
I genuinely tried to ignore her completely at first but she seemed so serious I did not know what to say, I was ready if she didn't want to fuck then and there, but she was just like I don't fuck (at all)???
Its been half a week and we haven't communicated at all, but I believe it is salvagable. I feel like I should wait a couple more days then hit her up again asking her to come over for Netflix (which was also what she originally proposed before asking to change to a hike).
I rationalized the cause of this to either Last Minute Resistance or Anti-slut defence (we have a ton of mutual friends).
But I would like to know if this is a good approach? Or how should I approach this situation? And how could I have better tackled this situation in the future?
Cheers.
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