Storytime: you know her from class. You haven't been in town for a while but you are now for 6 weeks.

You msg her on fb, as a reply she invites you to go eat with friends, and says she'll send time and place later. She sends you place, but no time and says she doesn't know when she'll be there. You respond saying "ok well keep me up to date when you'll be there",,, she doesn't reply.

Meet her in class a week later, she gives you a lift back home, chat a little in the car. At the end of the ride, you say "let's meet again sometime, what's your cellphone number?" She says: "ooh, I'll give it to you, but don't freak out if I don't respond for 3-4 days or so, I'm hard to reach by cellphone" (she's got a fancy smartphone). You say "ok well, what else do you use?". She says "fb, but also hard to reach, but yeah here's my number, we can do something in the city I'll let you choose". You say "ok" and leave.

In spite of the red flags, you still want to try to spin this plate. What do you do? (and motivate your answer)

a) you pick out an event that seems cool, and message her the next week.

b) you pick out an event that seems cool, and message her 3 weeks later.

c) you do not msg her this month. You go out of town, do your own thing for a couple of months, lift hard, and message her when you're back in 6 months.

d) you never msg her again.