she likes 'nice guys'

FinancialElephant · 2019-01-07T06:19:20+00:00

Ignore the words, judge her on her actions. Women will say things they don't mean all the time whether it's unconscious manipulation, outright manipulation, or just because a statement feels right in the moment (truth notwithstanding). Women naturally cover up their negative attributes much more aggressively and effectively than men. Stick to your guns

Onidramon · 2019-01-07T05:50:40+00:00

Sometimes, women who have been viciously alpha widowed will cope by seeking to dominate a beta to regain a sense of control after getting tossed to the curb. Just one possibility.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-01-07T06:08:48+00:00

Just means she got hurt. Maybe the narc ducked her over. In their heads, they rationalize that they want a 'nice Guy'. That no competition and being put first sounds better.

But when they are in that relationship, they realise they don't get the feels they want. It's what leads many to say 'I dunno what I want, I'm so confused'.

They always want someone strong. They do NOT want a nice guy. Their hamster is outsmarting their emotions. What they really want, is a strong RP kinda guy, who they THINK will put them first.

[deleted] · 2019-01-07T06:54:03+00:00

Frame control.

She wants power and she prequalifying for it

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-01-07T08:17:34+00:00

what she wants ≠ what she fucks

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-01-07T08:42:38+00:00

told

But how does she act?

MajesticWhiteBull · 2019-01-07T10:20:47+00:00

In short: She likes it when she doesen't need to compete, she would love to have a faithfull boyfriend to cuck behind his back.

showerdudes9 · 2019-01-07T11:32:43+00:00

Sure, many girls likes this and it's not a strange thing. Guys like that makes great friends and even, at times, good partners! However does it make her pussy tingle with a shy, timid guy? Nope, it's always going to be dry as the sahara down there. But that's not the biggest deal for her because whenever her pussy tingles from a bad boy she'll spread her legs regardless of being with that shy timid guy or not. She can always get sex so it's not important to mention the qualities she likes sexually. She mentions the qualities she likes friend/partner-wise.

FeralRed · 2019-01-07T13:52:47+00:00

WATCH WHAT THEY DO, DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY.

It's not "rare", it's a lie women tell themselves. Women are programmed just like we get programmed. But the base desires remain.

Flip it. Would you rather fuck a girl who literally has no other options but to fuck just you, or fuck a girl that gets attention from other men everywhere, and is the object of desire in every room she enters?

Yeah.

latinasonly · 2019-01-07T08:29:44+00:00

the guy migt have dumped her and shes changing the story

frick-a-frack · 2019-01-07T15:55:08+00:00

She likes nice guys because she can manipulate them without ever sucking their dicks.

throwawaybpdnpd · 2019-01-07T16:07:02+00:00

I had many women like that when I was beta, actually ALL of them were like that.

Fastforward a few months in the relationships, they become controlling and dominant; then cheat

A lot of BPD females are this way because they know they can’t have more; men with frame couldn’t stand them for a week

Stay away

RedSkeller · 2019-01-07T16:12:30+00:00

She's every girl's response. No chick is going to admit she wants to get pumped and dumped by a hot guy who has options. Not to mention trust actions not words. That 'nice' guy also has a chiseled jaw line and is above six foot with a six pack. It's not the guy playing world of warcraft on the weekends when he isn't volunteering at the dog shelter.

Title	she likes 'nice guys'
Author	personadabes
Upvotes	4
Comments	39
Date	January 7, 2019 5:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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