So this story is a bit complicated, I met this girl last year in college and It's obvious she's into me, she approached me, I wasn't redpilled yet, we spent lots of time together but I never even kissed her because I was still wimpy and bluepilled, about 3-4 months ago just when I started to learn the red pill she started spending less time with me, I wasn't worried because I thought it was just a phase, since about month I want to see her again, she invited me at her place (she lives quite far so we both need to plan a full free day if we want to meet at our homes) I texted her several times but she didn't answer very often or when she did it was days later, so I never managed to visit her. Today I saw her again in class, (she is serbian and recently met some other serbian people to hang out with) she was putting make up on during the whole class, after class I walk to her and ask her to spend some time together, she said with an embarassing smile that she already planned a coffee with her friends and that I could come along, I accepted. Turns out it was just one other guy, they greeted each other by hugging and a kiss on the cheeks and then we had a walk together, at first it was odd for all 3 of us but we still tried to make smalltalk, occasionally they spoke in serbian and I had no idea what they were saying but I felt out of place, according to the very few understandable words it sounded as she asked him if it was a problem that I came along. I acted friendly with him trying to show as less rivalry as possible because it looked like the most assertive thing to do, She told me that he is a sweet friend that brought her flowers and a bracelet that she always wears, but she specified very clearly several times that he is just a friend, plus she missed her train once and this guy wanted to drive her home which is quite far like I said before, at this point I think I broke my frame by jokingly pointing out that he is into her and that I thought they had a relationship, she just laughed it off and denied, I wasn't supposed to do it, I know, my bad. Long story short part of me says I shouldn't worry because he clearly acts needy and portrays an extremely beta attitude by buyng her presents and driving around for 3 hours just to make her a favour, as much as it matters I also think that I'm physically better off than him, he is shorter than me, skinny guy with no muscles, patchy beard and he literally wears a fedora (yes, literally), his behaviour isn't very manly either, you know the typical shy quite guy who doesn't talk much...on the other hand there are some details that make me worry, her putting on make up as if she had a date (she usually doesnt in class) her being nervous and embarassed about my presence, talking with him a few times in serbian about God knows what...my instinct says that I should ignore her for a while and show abundance but if I do we'll probably lose contact because she doesn't text me first as she did before, it looks like my abscence doesn't bother her. So what do you guys think? Should I worry or not? And most importantly how should I react? My biggest concern is that she is into me since a year but I never got sexual with her because I discovered the red pill too late and know she kinda wants to next me because she got tired of waiting for me to do a move, I only went as far as saying that she looks sexy in her selfies, if I could only change the past...