She said I was ...

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-11-15T13:02:58+00:00

You’ve either been heavy-handed when leading her, or she’s just ready to check out of the relationship and is starting with the bullshit excuses to justify it.

If you think it might be the former, recalibrate and dial it back a bit. If the latter, ignore.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-11-15T13:11:27+00:00

Rosace_89 · 2018-11-15T12:23:41+00:00

needy?

effyouasshole · 2018-11-15T15:19:44+00:00

Words don't matter. Only actions do. She likely lost interest in you for the standard reasons, and is just using this as an excuse.

The truth doesn't matter. All that matters is your SMV isn't high enough to retain her. But this should be an issue, because you have abundance mentality and outcome-independence, right?

...right?

Atheist_Utopia · 2018-11-15T12:54:12+00:00

Don't try-hard alpha male, or it will indeed comes across as controlling. Believe me, I've made the same mistake.

justAtticus · 2018-11-15T16:21:47+00:00

She is starting an argument because she has lost attraction or has a branch to swing to. She has disrespected you. Don't put up with that. She is a princess, she can treat people how she wants. That is what she has been taught all of her life. HARD NEXT her.

Title	She said I was ...
Author	Krsna108
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	November 15, 2018 12:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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