Shit test about other guys on dates

fnordsnord · 2016-05-19T19:01:00+00:00

She is trying to illustrate that other men find her desirable, which makes her more attractive (in theory). That's all this is.

I'd be careful trying to shut these down. Don't want to come off jealous, insecure, or butt-hurt. My go to would be to kiss her everytime she brings up another guy, but that doesn't fit in all situations.

Apexk9 · 2016-05-19T18:52:02+00:00

I don't bullshit

Lying manipulation makes this game easy I just tell them the truth.

"I don't care don't bring it up again"

And if they do there are concequences. I kill all drama. Because I don't give a fuck what their opinion of me is or if they want to leave. This is my "frame" total domination my way or highway.

I'm 30 I don't play at the childish shit.

So if I say something and they peace out oh well next up to the plate and that's life.

They always stick around.

JamesSkepp · 2016-05-19T18:49:16+00:00

1.) Social Proof - she wants you to know she is desirable.

2.) Pressure Flip, Amused Mastery, Agree & Amplify, Ignore.

50pluspiller · 2016-05-19T21:22:10+00:00

Response : "Yeah, I have the same thing happen with chicks all the time, I just dont blab about it."

SpiderSwimMan · 2016-05-19T19:27:50+00:00

Right off the bat you know she's an attention / validation whore. Probably the type that posts selfies online and waits for 30 guys to tell her how hot she is. Proceed with caution.

ecosci · 2016-05-22T03:05:47+00:00

She wants to know if you will put up with her cheating by acting jealous and this makes her value higher than yours according to her actions.Set boundaries and next time disrespect her infront of people our her friends she will get the message because she knows whats going on.

BenjiDread · 2016-05-20T21:08:41+00:00

Based on my limited TRP knowledge, women do this because this is what works on them.

Women want to be with men that other way men want to fuck. If you gave off a vibe that other women want you, it would probably make her want you more.

So they throw out these shit tests to make you jealous and want them more.

Problem is, this has the opposite effect and turns us off.

In my decidedly non-expert opinion: Next time she mentions something like this, say something like, "OMG I know what you mean. The other day this girl texted me saying she's home alone... Lol. Not interested. She's not that hot."

Zealous_One · 2016-05-19T19:24:22+00:00

I'd probably leave, bitch testing like that right off the start is no good

Title	Shit test about other guys on dates
Author	EntitledShitHead
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	May 19, 2016 6:45 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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