I'm going to a get together my plate invited me too. It's hosted by her friends who I've met. When I met them they were subtlety shit testing me the whole time and seemed to be on guard.

I'm learning and improving when it comes to shit tests, I'm pretty confident so I naturally pass them. However, when I usually get shit tested, I pass said test and then escalate.

Do I just pass the shit test and then not escalate with her friends? If feel like shit testing is flirtatious from the start.

Any thoughts?