Should I go on?

OmLaLa · 2015-12-03T17:01:34+00:00

She looks definitely interested

"Looks interested" doesn't mean "is interested".

she is always hugging me or sitting on my legs

Flirting is used on Alpha and Beta alike. Doesn't mean a thing.

She has a long distance relationship and she is pretty much addicted to this guy who seems like a complete douche

Good for him. He's made an Alpha Widow. And LDRs are imaginary anyways.

(swag hats, obey shirts and shit)

Don't get butthurt just because this guy turned her into an Alpha Widow while wearing a "swag" hat (whatever that is).

I think I am being used as a fucking teddy bear since she has a boyfriend

You're being used as a teddybear because she's an Alpha Widow and your SMV's too low compared to her Widower.

What do you guys think I should do?

Next and step up your SMV.

Should I go for a kiss or should I just move on to the next hot girl?

Kissing her is desperation and you WILL get shot down. Going to another hot girl will lead to the same result. The real problem is your SMV.

In any other circumstances I would have walked away but she is pretty hot and we have a lot in common.

You mean you're pedestalizing her. Stop that. Stop it right now.

BeefJesusMaker · 2015-12-03T19:16:04+00:00

You're her "Time Ho". Cut that shit out. By letting her sit in your lap, hug you, or by giving her any type of attention, you are giving her validation. Women feed off of that shit. So stop.

Listen to Patrice:

https://youtu.be/t9QOQNcpuiA

_Tactleneck_ · 2015-12-03T18:42:53+00:00

Next time she sits on you, tell her to sit somewhere else and watch the white Knights come out of the woodwork!

PUAtalksRP · 2015-12-04T01:28:46+00:00

You sound really young and inexperienced. how old are you?

Basically, a LDR is the same as her being single.

Push for the meetup in isolation, if she doesnt want to isolate, next her

Title	Should I go on?
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Upvotes	5
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Date	December 3, 2015 4:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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