I keep getting good matches and conversations with girls, but with the hottest ones/those I want to fuck the most I ask them out and get no response.

Examples:

  1. Good convo, making her laugh and sharing common interests. Always responds within a few hours at most.

She’s a PT, I ask her if she drinks, she says yes, I say “haha, well that’s good for me, let’s get a drink then”. No reply.

Too beta? Too thirsty?

  1. Again good convo, witty banter, making her laugh. She jokingly expresses through innuendo not wanting to fuck on the first date.

I respond “well I’d hope not 😂. Let’s grab a drink though, what’s your number?”

Again too forward? Too thirsty?

These games are such a pain in the balls my bro’s, should I follow up with another message after a few days or just do nothing?